Not Just Music Podcast Episode 70 ft Duan & Q "Thanksgiving 2024"

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Yo Q what up?

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Man I'm keeping it real what up Duan?

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Welcome

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to not

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just music

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where we keep it real

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and honest

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always

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our

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new

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All

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whats going on beauty

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dya

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it's always

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hows northern

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right

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Nik

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So

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November

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to a complete halt and end.

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That dirty December, huh?

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And also, this is our Thanksgiving week.

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Today is Thanksgiving to be exact.

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And what are we cooking on?

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What do we eat today?

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What do we get today?

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Did we learn anything?

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Did we see family?

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Did we get to hold on to family?

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What did we get?

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And also, what are you thankful for again?

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What are you thankful for?

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People always should be thankful for something.

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So again, I'm gonna start off

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and tell what I'm thankful for today.

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Because again, this is our Thanksgiving special.

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You thankful for your fried turkey?

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Thankful for my fried.

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Oh, and again, I smoke.

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Your fried bird.

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Remember, I smoke mine.

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So.

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My smoked bird is definitely a go.

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My smoked chicken is definitely gonna be a go too

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because I'm gonna eat that as well on today.

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Be thankful for that, man.

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All of the good food.

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Of course, the biggest thing I'm so thankful for

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is my life, my health, and my strength.

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A lot of us don't get to have all of those.

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Some people dead right now.

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People that aren't strong right now.

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They don't have any strength right now.

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And health is very much, I'm coming around.

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I'm starting to feel a lot better.

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I know my skin is starting to heal now.

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I thought things starting to take place,

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it's a good thing, so I'm not complaining anymore.

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You know, I wasn't complaining in the first place,

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but I just feel a whole lot better.

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But yeah, family.

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Definitely, family, family, family.

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My family is everything.

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Everybody that's in my circle is pretty tight in it now.

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I think I've gotten rid of all of the kinks.

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There may be a few kinks left in there

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that ain't worked their way out.

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I'm still coming, so trust me.

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I'm gonna find those kinks and get those kinks out my life.

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Get rid of it.

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But yeah, for the most part, I'm thankful, man.

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Just again, I'm here.

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I get to do this drive-through traffic

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to come do this lovely situation.

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But again, I won't complain.

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I told you, let's pull up, man.

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Let's get it.

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I won't complain.

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I'm not gonna complain as much as, yeah, I'm tired.

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But again, it's Thanksgiving.

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I'm not gonna be tired for Thanksgiving.

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I'm thankful.

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I'm thankful for being tired.

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I did something good.

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I didn't do anything bad to be in this position

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to sit in front of these cameras.

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What you thankful for, bro?

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Man, I'm thankful for health.

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Man, I'm thankful for the success we've had this year,

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collectively and individually.

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I'm thankful for my family, my kids,

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rebuilding bad relationships too.

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Rebuilding a lot of things, fixing a lot of things,

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but then myself, my movie coming out

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and actually helping me, bro,

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like I know we talked about this before,

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but I feel like the movie kinda,

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it helped me with my life, man.

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I look at things differently

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because it's like I kinda let it out to the world.

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Like I just let it go, you feel me?

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And somebody, my past had said something.

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She was like, your story is not just your story.

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It's for somebody else.

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I feel so much better now that I put it out

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and it's coming out, you know what I'm saying?

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Yeah, I'm just thankful for everything, bro,

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and thankful for just being here,

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be alive, my family and everything.

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Now, that you, the thankful parts

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of what you have gained in 2023,

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do they mean more, as you just explained,

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due to the unexpected things that have happened,

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that have taken place?

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Yeah.

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Those things hit differently.

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It's because one thing I always say is visual,

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visually, visualistic things that you give people

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hit differently than just a piece of audio.

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I've said that many times.

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Music, music has its way,

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but when you add video to it,

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it brings a certain level of attention to what's going on.

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Firstly, it's rare somebody wants to go as far

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as to put a movie out in the sense of,

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but not even just putting a movie out,

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to promote it and give it to people for free

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is a different thing too, because you want people to see it,

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even though the movie, that movie wasn't the whole

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entire movie, just to let y'all know.

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It was a part that was left out.

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Nobody even knew that.

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I did that purposely, because I wanted to be something exclusive.

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And you know what?

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And he was like, what more part ain't in there?

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Yeah, it's not in there.

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I was like, bro, you gon' be in there, bro.

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It's not in there.

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The exclusive part of it was that part.

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That really makes the movie.

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That's why I kind of left it out in a sense of,

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because I didn't want that to kind of be the focal point of,

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I just wanted people to see the highlight of the movie.

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Bro, that's what we needed to sell it.

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That's how we needed to sell it.

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So what's gon' be sold is not gon' be,

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if you came to the premiere, hey,

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but I want y'all to buy the movie.

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Please.

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Because it's something that y'all didn't see.

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See, you gotta, this is my thing now.

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And this is Thanksgiving Day.

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I'm giving away, giving away some.

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Thanksgiving giveaway.

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This is a day of Thanksgiving giveaway.

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To whomever sees this,

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even if it's on IG, YouTube, TikTok, whatever.

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Whoever sees this post first,

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I will personally send you a copy

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of the Quincy Murdoch movie on me.

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But it's only to the person who sees this email,

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and I'm gonna put it at the bottom of the screen.

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If you see the email, see the email,

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you just see it, just send it to this email

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that you saw this post and you heard me talk

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about Quincy Murdoch movie, if you're interested.

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Only if you're interested, if you wanna see it for free,

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I'll send it to you for free.

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That'll be a good addition to giving something away

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on Thanksgiving.

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I can say that's part of me giving away too.

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So thank y'all, both of us giving away.

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Both of us giving away.

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But again, don't, don't, don't.

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It's about giving.

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But don't take it as if I'm just pitching

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a situation to y'all to make y'all do something.

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No, it's not.

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It's really just a thing, I just wanna be giving.

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Just be a giving individual.

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Work hard.

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You want to give people something for your hard work.

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That's one thing that you did.

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You gave them, you wanted people to see it,

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they came to see it.

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Now, the outcome of it, again, family.

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Or friends.

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Or people that you don't know.

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Or people that you don't feel.

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Or people that you didn't feel.

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Or people that you didn't see or hadn't seen, right?

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Yeah.

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Have came, and some will come.

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Some will come around even as time goes on.

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Yeah.

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Going into the holiday.

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Is it a good thing for you?

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Or do you feel that some of the energy

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that's just coming from this will

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not break relationships apart, more so bring them together.

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But do you feel?

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The movie you talking about?

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Yeah, as far as the movie, when people see it.

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Yeah.

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The people, let's start with the people that saw it

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as of in the premiere, right?

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So, did you expect the reaction,

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or did you expect to see that many people show up

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for the premiere?

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I didn't expect that many people, I'm being honest.

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I didn't expect what I got.

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Bruh, I was nervous the whole time.

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Even though it was a true story,

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I was cringing though on them parts,

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like, aw man, what they gonna think about this, man.

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And I'm gonna be honest, a couple people walked out.

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I seen a couple families walk out due to,

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I just wanna put this out there,

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this is probably not appropriate film for kids to watch.

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I just wanna put that out there.

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This is actually a mature movie.

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Oh, y'all will see that tag on when it's time to bite.

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Yeah.

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It's a mature movie.

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I think that's one issue we had, we had kids in there.

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If you want your kids to watch it, explain it to them,

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that's you, you be a parent, but I'm saying,

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for me personally, it's not for kids to watch.

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PG-13, PG-13, y'all.

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So, that's considerably what it is, it's a PG-13.

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Keep this in mind too, again,

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those people that feel as if they're-

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You had a lot of churchy church people,

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some churchy church, but this is real life.

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Yeah, this ain't a church.

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And we don't into it.

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This ain't a church.

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Yeah, this ain't a church.

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This is real life.

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This ain't gospel driven.

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But you know what, but the ones, the churchy churches

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actually probably went through the same things,

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and forget that, but that ain't my call, but yeah.

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Go ahead, bro.

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No, no.

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Yeah, because they act like

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they ain't never experienced anything.

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But do you expect, do you not expect that to be the case?

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You know, like, I mean, the realness of what you put out,

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the realness of what you wanted people to see,

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the realness of how you wanted people to feel about it,

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that's what you did.

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That's the only thing that you could do.

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You're not the super churchy type individual as it is.

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Don't get me wrong to say that nobody is though.

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Nobody is super churchy.

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I didn't grow up in the church, man.

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But again, your life's story should be presented

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how you feel it's supposed to be.

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It's not supposed to be presented as if in how they saw.

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Oh, well, oh yeah.

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Well, he was nice around, well, he was different.

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He was like this way around me.

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He was supposed to be, this was supposed to be church.

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I thought we were going to church in this movie, though.

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It said that Quincy murdered out the movie.

269
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So again, if anybody took that the wrong way, that's sad.

270
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Quincy murdered out the movie, self-explanatory.

271
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Given the case of now, even as I said,

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these people see it, even those of the past, I think.

273
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Honestly, I don't think people would be that disturbed by it.

274
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And I'm gonna tell you why.

275
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One, you really didn't bash anybody.

276
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If anything, I bash myself a lot.

277
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You told a very honest truth.

278
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You weren't, you didn't sugarcoat it in any manner.

279
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And it should be respected as that.

280
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I mean, yeah, it's not gonna come out as pretty,

281
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but again, what situation is pretty?

282
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There's no situation that's pretty.

283
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And given that this is Thanksgiving Day,

284
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like if it's somebody that you sitting

285
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at the table with right now, you mad at them, upset,

286
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or whatever it is that it may be.

287
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And you know what, just for the case of that,

288
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that should make things a thousand times better

289
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because the person is right there with you right now.

290
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You actually have a chance to apologize.

291
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So look at them and apologize right now

292
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while we sitting here talking.

293
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Tell them sorry.

294
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Tell them, or forgive them.

295
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Put that spoon down right quick.

296
00:12:57,340 --> 00:12:58,900
Apologize, yeah.

297
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Apologize, you be the person to apologize

298
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because sometimes it's-

299
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I'm sorry.

300
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Sometimes we need to take a look at ourself.

301
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Even if the person that is,

302
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you found the person that did you wrong,

303
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think about it like this.

304
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Find out what you could've did in yourself

305
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to make them do you wrong.

306
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Bro, can I say something?

307
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Go ahead.

308
00:13:19,740 --> 00:13:22,140
Do you not know how much better life could be

309
00:13:22,140 --> 00:13:24,300
just by those simple words, I'm sorry?

310
00:13:24,300 --> 00:13:25,500
No, man, that's true.

311
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It could change so many things.

312
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Yeah.

313
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It might break down the worst thing.

314
00:13:30,380 --> 00:13:33,340
That might make the hardest person soft, man.

315
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You know what I'm saying?

316
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Man, I'm sorry too.

317
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Boom, there you go.

318
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You know what I'm saying?

319
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Bro, I'm sorry is a strong statement, man.

320
00:13:42,780 --> 00:13:43,620
You know what I'm saying?

321
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You're right.

322
00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:45,460
And a lot of people don't take it.

323
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Do it because they feel as if it makes them weak,

324
00:13:48,300 --> 00:13:50,020
but that's the good thing about it.

325
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It's supposed to make you,

326
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it's supposed to decrease you.

327
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That's what it's about, decreasing you

328
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and honoring the other person.

329
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There's nothing wrong with it

330
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because sometimes you do rub a person wrong

331
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and you didn't even notice that you did it

332
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until you sit back and take another look at it.

333
00:14:07,940 --> 00:14:09,180
Like, okay, you know what?

334
00:14:09,180 --> 00:14:10,500
I might've been wrong for doing that.

335
00:14:10,500 --> 00:14:12,240
I might've been wrong for saying that.

336
00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:13,080
And you know what?

337
00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,660
And the person that might be stubborn too,

338
00:14:14,660 --> 00:14:17,760
like you say sorry, you say sorry,

339
00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,300
that person might just come out, man.

340
00:14:19,300 --> 00:14:20,700
You know, I'm sorry too, man.

341
00:14:20,700 --> 00:14:23,460
I'm so sorry doing this and doing that.

342
00:14:23,460 --> 00:14:27,300
So your sorry might break them down to admit their wrong.

343
00:14:27,300 --> 00:14:28,420
You get what I'm saying?

344
00:14:28,420 --> 00:14:32,540
So look at it as like therapy, like on both ends.

345
00:14:32,540 --> 00:14:33,380
You know what I'm saying?

346
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Coming to an agreement.

347
00:14:34,380 --> 00:14:35,620
That's how I look at it now.

348
00:14:35,620 --> 00:14:36,460
Oh yeah.

349
00:14:36,460 --> 00:14:37,280
Saying I'm sorry.

350
00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:38,120
Yeah.

351
00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:42,480
So now, if nothing else too, y'all,

352
00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,080
even if it's family, friends or whatever,

353
00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,340
whoever you with, this is another thing

354
00:14:48,340 --> 00:14:51,340
to take advantage of too, again, as I say,

355
00:14:51,340 --> 00:14:53,460
while they're there, time.

356
00:14:53,460 --> 00:14:56,560
You know, this is the time of the year

357
00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:00,620
where family should be at the top of your list.

358
00:15:00,620 --> 00:15:01,620
Straight up.

359
00:15:01,620 --> 00:15:04,580
I mean, friends can be considered family as well.

360
00:15:04,580 --> 00:15:06,580
So don't take it as if, and I'm just saying

361
00:15:06,580 --> 00:15:08,280
your blood family.

362
00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:11,140
Somebody that's close to you that you consider family,

363
00:15:11,140 --> 00:15:13,260
that you can depend on or somebody that you can call on

364
00:15:13,260 --> 00:15:15,620
or you know, anything in that nature of

365
00:15:15,620 --> 00:15:17,900
considering them to be close to you.

366
00:15:17,900 --> 00:15:19,300
If you're sitting with them right now,

367
00:15:19,300 --> 00:15:21,260
and even if there's nothing wrong,

368
00:15:21,260 --> 00:15:23,660
again, talk about good things.

369
00:15:23,660 --> 00:15:25,020
Talk about the good times.

370
00:15:25,020 --> 00:15:28,460
Like, I've been trying to do that more often with people.

371
00:15:28,460 --> 00:15:29,380
Talk about the good things.

372
00:15:29,380 --> 00:15:30,780
Talk about the good times.

373
00:15:30,780 --> 00:15:34,940
Things that bring positive, influential things

374
00:15:34,940 --> 00:15:39,820
to both of you as a whole or even as a family.

375
00:15:39,820 --> 00:15:40,740
Let's do that.

376
00:15:40,740 --> 00:15:42,700
I mean, you might, some people might sit there and sing.

377
00:15:42,700 --> 00:15:44,780
You might have it be in the singing family.

378
00:15:44,780 --> 00:15:46,280
Sing some songs.

379
00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,160
Y'all might be some rappers.

380
00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:49,260
Rap.

381
00:15:49,260 --> 00:15:52,060
Y'all might be some rudders.

382
00:15:52,060 --> 00:15:52,900
Go for a run.

383
00:15:52,900 --> 00:15:55,980
Y'all might be, find that niche that everybody does

384
00:15:55,980 --> 00:15:57,860
that everybody could do together.

385
00:15:57,860 --> 00:15:58,700
Could be games.

386
00:15:58,700 --> 00:15:59,920
It could be whatever.

387
00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:03,500
Like, find those things to make bonds

388
00:16:03,500 --> 00:16:04,980
great during this time of the year.

389
00:16:04,980 --> 00:16:07,660
Gather some good energy because we don't get to be around

390
00:16:07,660 --> 00:16:09,620
family all the time.

391
00:16:09,620 --> 00:16:11,100
Gather that energy up.

392
00:16:11,100 --> 00:16:12,260
Bottle it up.

393
00:16:12,260 --> 00:16:14,620
Take it back to wherever you're going to.

394
00:16:14,620 --> 00:16:18,260
And tell those people and bring those people around.

395
00:16:18,260 --> 00:16:20,200
Those close ones that you didn't get to be around

396
00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:21,560
on Thanksgiving.

397
00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:23,420
Let them get some of that energy.

398
00:16:23,420 --> 00:16:27,860
Because the thing is, we don't flow enough in positivity

399
00:16:27,860 --> 00:16:28,760
as families.

400
00:16:29,660 --> 00:16:31,740
And I'm starting to see that more so now

401
00:16:31,740 --> 00:16:34,120
because we don't communicate.

402
00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:34,960
Right.

403
00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,500
It's a lack of communication within families.

404
00:16:37,500 --> 00:16:38,980
I need to do better.

405
00:16:38,980 --> 00:16:41,180
You know, I love my family.

406
00:16:41,180 --> 00:16:42,280
I need to do better.

407
00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,380
Can I say something?

408
00:16:43,380 --> 00:16:45,540
Sometimes family is just a word.

409
00:16:45,540 --> 00:16:47,300
Yeah, you're right.

410
00:16:47,300 --> 00:16:50,220
Family, real family is an action.

411
00:16:50,220 --> 00:16:52,100
Like, how you act with somebody.

412
00:16:52,100 --> 00:16:53,340
You know what I'm saying?

413
00:16:53,340 --> 00:16:56,260
Like, you know, I know some people that's close

414
00:16:56,260 --> 00:16:58,300
to strangers than their family.

415
00:16:58,300 --> 00:17:01,380
Our stranger be there before their family member will.

416
00:17:01,380 --> 00:17:02,220
You know what I'm saying?

417
00:17:02,220 --> 00:17:04,660
So, it's an action word.

418
00:17:04,660 --> 00:17:06,100
Like, love is an action word.

419
00:17:06,100 --> 00:17:07,300
You know what I'm saying?

420
00:17:07,300 --> 00:17:08,260
You gotta show it.

421
00:17:08,260 --> 00:17:09,300
Yeah.

422
00:17:09,300 --> 00:17:12,020
Just because we got the same blood, don't mean we family.

423
00:17:12,020 --> 00:17:13,380
Like, what are you showing?

424
00:17:13,380 --> 00:17:14,220
We family.

425
00:17:14,220 --> 00:17:15,040
Exactly.

426
00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,020
So, yeah.

427
00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:16,860
Exactly.

428
00:17:16,860 --> 00:17:17,980
And that's my thing.

429
00:17:17,980 --> 00:17:21,740
I take on, like you just said, like, that's why I said,

430
00:17:21,740 --> 00:17:24,860
family can be deeper than just those ones

431
00:17:24,860 --> 00:17:28,260
that have that blood, that blood, you know, that,

432
00:17:29,540 --> 00:17:31,780
we got the same blood, yeah, that makes us family.

433
00:17:31,780 --> 00:17:33,660
Yeah, sometimes it don't though.

434
00:17:33,660 --> 00:17:37,020
Because sometimes that blood can be overlooked.

435
00:17:37,020 --> 00:17:38,220
And we ain't down in family.

436
00:17:38,220 --> 00:17:39,740
We're not talking about family or nothing.

437
00:17:39,740 --> 00:17:42,020
We're just being real, you know, keeping it real.

438
00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:44,660
Like, I'ma be at a show the 25th

439
00:17:44,660 --> 00:17:48,180
with my cast and crew for this stage play in.

440
00:17:48,180 --> 00:17:50,840
Bruh, like, man, we already grew a bond.

441
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,740
So, that's like family.

442
00:17:52,740 --> 00:17:54,860
It ain't my blood family, but it's like family.

443
00:17:54,860 --> 00:17:56,020
We all got each other.

444
00:17:56,020 --> 00:17:57,620
Like, we tired in practice.

445
00:17:57,620 --> 00:17:59,380
People like, man, hold your head up.

446
00:17:59,380 --> 00:18:01,300
I remember that first day I was tired, bruh.

447
00:18:01,300 --> 00:18:02,780
Like, man, I fell out.

448
00:18:03,700 --> 00:18:05,100
They give me a chair, bruh.

449
00:18:05,100 --> 00:18:06,620
They, bruh, keep your head up.

450
00:18:06,620 --> 00:18:08,620
I happen to bend over, keep your head up, man.

451
00:18:08,620 --> 00:18:09,460
You know what I'm saying?

452
00:18:09,460 --> 00:18:11,060
You a king, hold your head up.

453
00:18:11,060 --> 00:18:12,580
Like, that's love, bro.

454
00:18:12,580 --> 00:18:13,780
You know what I'm saying?

455
00:18:13,780 --> 00:18:16,380
So, family just ain't family.

456
00:18:16,380 --> 00:18:20,220
Like, we saying, like, you know, it can be strangers.

457
00:18:20,220 --> 00:18:22,060
People come in your life.

458
00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,780
We family, you know what I'm saying?

459
00:18:23,780 --> 00:18:27,700
Me and you, so it like, bruh, it's an action word, man.

460
00:18:27,700 --> 00:18:28,540
Mm-hmm.

461
00:18:29,500 --> 00:18:30,320
Yeah.

462
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:35,320
Sometimes the work does present, you know, people who,

463
00:18:36,300 --> 00:18:37,900
it's not all jobs, y'all.

464
00:18:37,900 --> 00:18:38,860
It's not all jobs.

465
00:18:38,860 --> 00:18:40,580
It's not all things that we do

466
00:18:40,580 --> 00:18:41,840
where you gonna run into some people.

467
00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,980
Because sometimes those connections, even those people

468
00:18:43,980 --> 00:18:46,020
that work those jobs, you know, you can't be around

469
00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:46,860
certain people at your job.

470
00:18:46,860 --> 00:18:49,740
Some people, though, you can't be around at a job.

471
00:18:49,740 --> 00:18:54,300
But everybody, you can't be on that level of, okay,

472
00:18:54,300 --> 00:18:59,300
you know who's deeper than family when it's presented.

473
00:18:59,900 --> 00:19:02,380
A situation is going to come up.

474
00:19:02,380 --> 00:19:05,180
Those that really are cutting through the mustard

475
00:19:05,180 --> 00:19:07,180
to get who gonna do something for you,

476
00:19:07,180 --> 00:19:08,460
you gonna do something for them.

477
00:19:08,460 --> 00:19:10,300
You don't gotta ask them.

478
00:19:10,300 --> 00:19:13,140
You've done that for me plenty times.

479
00:19:13,140 --> 00:19:17,340
Taking me to the airport, to Nigeria, and picking me up.

480
00:19:17,340 --> 00:19:19,580
Bruh, you ain't have to do that, man.

481
00:19:19,580 --> 00:19:20,460
You know what I'm saying?

482
00:19:20,460 --> 00:19:21,540
You didn't have to do that.

483
00:19:21,540 --> 00:19:24,700
So anytime we have like spits and splats

484
00:19:24,700 --> 00:19:27,780
and stuff like that, that's where, it's a reminder.

485
00:19:27,780 --> 00:19:30,620
Like, man, what this man has done for me.

486
00:19:30,620 --> 00:19:31,460
You know what I'm saying?

487
00:19:31,460 --> 00:19:32,300
Some people don't really get that.

488
00:19:32,300 --> 00:19:34,620
So like, people don't, like, people need to really

489
00:19:34,620 --> 00:19:37,500
think about things like that when they fall out

490
00:19:37,500 --> 00:19:38,940
with somebody temporarily.

491
00:19:38,940 --> 00:19:39,780
Yeah.

492
00:19:39,780 --> 00:19:41,300
Like I said, think about the good times.

493
00:19:41,300 --> 00:19:42,140
Yes.

494
00:19:42,140 --> 00:19:43,140
Think about the good things.

495
00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:44,280
You know what I'm saying?

496
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:48,780
Like what he did that was like changed my life.

497
00:19:48,780 --> 00:19:49,620
You know what I'm saying?

498
00:19:49,620 --> 00:19:50,820
Stuff like that.

499
00:19:50,820 --> 00:19:53,820
So like, that stuff should overweight all the little

500
00:19:53,820 --> 00:19:56,220
arguments and stuff like that, man.

501
00:19:56,220 --> 00:19:57,300
You forgive, man.

502
00:19:57,300 --> 00:20:00,740
Like all them good things that he did or she did,

503
00:20:00,740 --> 00:20:01,900
that's more important.

504
00:20:01,900 --> 00:20:02,740
You know what I'm saying?

505
00:20:02,740 --> 00:20:04,300
And see, that's what I love.

506
00:20:04,300 --> 00:20:05,140
Seriously.

507
00:20:05,140 --> 00:20:07,220
I love that type of energy now.

508
00:20:07,220 --> 00:20:11,780
Even with the case of like, I want people to think

509
00:20:11,780 --> 00:20:12,980
about this too.

510
00:20:12,980 --> 00:20:15,100
If you're sitting with your husband or your wife right now,

511
00:20:15,100 --> 00:20:17,460
your wife or your husband, however you,

512
00:20:17,460 --> 00:20:18,700
split it however you want.

513
00:20:19,900 --> 00:20:22,060
If you're sitting with them right now,

514
00:20:22,060 --> 00:20:26,620
and the obstacles, and I'm gonna tell you this,

515
00:20:26,620 --> 00:20:30,540
and this is, cause this is going to a deep conversation.

516
00:20:30,540 --> 00:20:35,540
And especially on a Thanksgiving table type of topic.

517
00:20:35,540 --> 00:20:37,940
You know, so think about this.

518
00:20:39,220 --> 00:20:40,860
And think about it, man.

519
00:20:40,860 --> 00:20:43,140
Shoot, I should at this around about two o'clock

520
00:20:43,140 --> 00:20:43,980
in the afternoon.

521
00:20:43,980 --> 00:20:45,140
I think I might do that.

522
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:47,700
Being Thanksgiving.

523
00:20:47,700 --> 00:20:50,200
So y'all seeing this at an earlier time.

524
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,860
So again, so y'all can get this in with your family.

525
00:20:52,860 --> 00:20:55,740
So let me ask y'all this, those married couples,

526
00:20:56,700 --> 00:20:59,580
are you sitting there holding the grudge at the table?

527
00:20:59,580 --> 00:21:02,540
Cause I'm gonna, bro, you tell me if I'm wrong.

528
00:21:02,540 --> 00:21:07,540
Married couples are some of the hardest people

529
00:21:08,980 --> 00:21:13,980
on each other in the whole entire universe.

530
00:21:14,300 --> 00:21:15,140
Yes or no?

531
00:21:15,140 --> 00:21:15,960
Well I ain't never been married,

532
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,100
but just in a relationship.

533
00:21:17,100 --> 00:21:20,580
Looking at people that's married, right?

534
00:21:21,980 --> 00:21:26,220
Don't it seem if people, don't you see more people like,

535
00:21:26,220 --> 00:21:28,580
man, I ain't getting married because of that right there?

536
00:21:28,580 --> 00:21:29,420
Yeah, yeah.

537
00:21:29,420 --> 00:21:30,260
You hear that a lot, right?

538
00:21:30,260 --> 00:21:31,100
I was like that.

539
00:21:31,100 --> 00:21:32,300
I be like that.

540
00:21:32,300 --> 00:21:33,500
I be like that.

541
00:21:33,500 --> 00:21:36,500
Cause you know, like man, I feel like a lot of people

542
00:21:36,500 --> 00:21:39,620
are just good as friends, man.

543
00:21:39,620 --> 00:21:40,460
That's it.

544
00:21:40,460 --> 00:21:42,980
Some people just better off as friends, man.

545
00:21:42,980 --> 00:21:44,820
Some people ain't meant to be married.

546
00:21:48,660 --> 00:21:52,100
I just feel like, cause how can you love a person

547
00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:53,820
when you ain't married so much,

548
00:21:53,820 --> 00:21:57,300
and then when you get married, you can't stand that person.

549
00:21:57,300 --> 00:21:58,620
I never understand it.

550
00:21:58,620 --> 00:22:01,260
Like how do you fall out of love with somebody

551
00:22:01,260 --> 00:22:03,100
just cause when you get married,

552
00:22:03,100 --> 00:22:04,100
it pros and becomes stronger.

553
00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:05,140
That's what I thought.

554
00:22:05,140 --> 00:22:06,460
It's supposed to.

555
00:22:06,460 --> 00:22:09,500
So the love falls a little bit.

556
00:22:09,500 --> 00:22:10,340
And I think it's-

557
00:22:10,340 --> 00:22:11,260
You get tired of the person?

558
00:22:11,260 --> 00:22:13,380
I think, I'ma tell you what I think I've learned, man.

559
00:22:13,380 --> 00:22:15,060
Cause you married, man.

560
00:22:15,060 --> 00:22:18,140
Some people think that, this is what I think.

561
00:22:19,540 --> 00:22:21,340
If you learn how to be an individual

562
00:22:22,980 --> 00:22:27,980
and be a individual who understands life,

563
00:22:27,980 --> 00:22:32,980
meaning changes, you constantly going through changes

564
00:22:35,580 --> 00:22:37,180
by yourself.

565
00:22:37,180 --> 00:22:39,020
That's enough for as it is, man.

566
00:22:39,020 --> 00:22:39,860
Just think about it, bro.

567
00:22:39,860 --> 00:22:40,700
They add two, add another.

568
00:22:40,700 --> 00:22:41,540
Bro, people be like-

569
00:22:41,540 --> 00:22:43,420
Add another head, bro.

570
00:22:43,420 --> 00:22:46,100
They be like, people be like, okay.

571
00:22:46,100 --> 00:22:48,460
So thinking about it, if you couldn't handle

572
00:22:48,460 --> 00:22:49,300
what was going on-

573
00:22:49,300 --> 00:22:50,140
In your life.

574
00:22:50,140 --> 00:22:53,020
By yourself, how you-

575
00:22:53,020 --> 00:22:56,020
Hey, bingo, that's it.

576
00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:58,100
How you go add people to it.

577
00:22:58,100 --> 00:22:59,420
Even kids.

578
00:22:59,420 --> 00:23:04,300
Like how, people be, how do you go have babies

579
00:23:04,300 --> 00:23:07,260
and you can't even take care of your own self?

580
00:23:07,260 --> 00:23:08,100
Yeah.

581
00:23:08,100 --> 00:23:09,860
How do you do that?

582
00:23:09,860 --> 00:23:10,700
Right.

583
00:23:10,700 --> 00:23:11,940
So again-

584
00:23:11,940 --> 00:23:14,820
It's more important to just bring a baby on the earth, man.

585
00:23:14,820 --> 00:23:17,660
Shit, I'll say, that's my baby mama, baby daddy.

586
00:23:17,660 --> 00:23:18,500
You know what I'm saying?

587
00:23:18,500 --> 00:23:19,940
Some people can't handle it.

588
00:23:19,940 --> 00:23:21,460
It's not there.

589
00:23:21,460 --> 00:23:23,140
This is not a thing for everybody.

590
00:23:23,140 --> 00:23:24,220
No, you're right.

591
00:23:24,220 --> 00:23:25,460
You said that.

592
00:23:25,460 --> 00:23:26,660
Marriage ain't for everybody.

593
00:23:26,660 --> 00:23:27,580
Some people are like, yeah.

594
00:23:27,580 --> 00:23:29,460
You said, bet off his friends.

595
00:23:30,580 --> 00:23:35,580
A task at hand for me is why do people make it seem

596
00:23:36,940 --> 00:23:40,500
as if in the married people, those that aren't married

597
00:23:40,500 --> 00:23:45,540
try to convince you why you shouldn't be married

598
00:23:45,540 --> 00:23:47,020
when something goes on?

599
00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:47,860
Can I say something?

600
00:23:47,860 --> 00:23:48,700
Go ahead.

601
00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:51,220
But see the thing, okay, I want your opinion.

602
00:23:51,220 --> 00:23:53,500
So what would you say to somebody,

603
00:23:53,500 --> 00:23:54,860
I'm not gonna say no names,

604
00:23:54,860 --> 00:23:58,100
but if they were together in a serious relationship

605
00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:04,260
and one of the people cheated and did this and did that

606
00:24:04,260 --> 00:24:07,100
and they broke up, but the person is like,

607
00:24:07,100 --> 00:24:08,300
oh, that's my best friend.

608
00:24:08,300 --> 00:24:10,540
I think we just best friends.

609
00:24:13,140 --> 00:24:15,340
Would you hurt your best friend?

610
00:24:16,220 --> 00:24:17,900
You get what I'm saying?

611
00:24:17,900 --> 00:24:20,060
We bet off his friend, but you didn't know this

612
00:24:20,060 --> 00:24:21,340
before we got this deep.

613
00:24:21,340 --> 00:24:22,340
You know what I'm saying?

614
00:24:22,340 --> 00:24:23,620
We bet off his friends.

615
00:24:23,620 --> 00:24:25,660
This is the deep, that's the deep question.

616
00:24:25,660 --> 00:24:27,140
Yeah, I want your opinion on that.

617
00:24:27,140 --> 00:24:29,940
So would you accept that or you would just be like,

618
00:24:29,940 --> 00:24:31,660
nah, because if you was my best friend,

619
00:24:31,660 --> 00:24:33,700
why would you do this?

620
00:24:33,700 --> 00:24:35,900
I would probably, I'm gonna tell you, I'm a Scorpio,

621
00:24:35,900 --> 00:24:38,620
so I would be like, man, no.

622
00:24:38,620 --> 00:24:39,460
You know what I'm saying?

623
00:24:39,460 --> 00:24:41,140
You don't love me, you done did this,

624
00:24:41,140 --> 00:24:42,180
stab me in my back.

625
00:24:42,180 --> 00:24:44,220
Like, you're not my friend.

626
00:24:44,220 --> 00:24:45,700
Friends don't do that.

627
00:24:45,700 --> 00:24:49,620
So how you gonna say, okay, we're in a relationship,

628
00:24:49,620 --> 00:24:52,380
we're married, we boyfriend, girlfriend.

629
00:24:52,380 --> 00:24:53,820
Oh, I screwed up.

630
00:24:53,820 --> 00:24:55,620
Okay, let's just be friends,

631
00:24:55,620 --> 00:24:57,260
because I think we bet off as friends.

632
00:24:57,260 --> 00:24:59,260
We might just work better as friends.

633
00:24:59,260 --> 00:25:01,060
So why did you have to do all that

634
00:25:01,060 --> 00:25:03,100
for you to get to that level?

635
00:25:03,100 --> 00:25:04,940
Why couldn't you just break it all

636
00:25:04,940 --> 00:25:07,300
before you cheated on me, did this and that?

637
00:25:07,300 --> 00:25:09,140
Yeah, that's what a real friend would do.

638
00:25:09,140 --> 00:25:09,980
Go ahead.

639
00:25:15,460 --> 00:25:18,140
The angle, let's take it like this, right?

640
00:25:18,140 --> 00:25:19,420
Like I said, right?

641
00:25:19,420 --> 00:25:24,420
Personally, and just be honest with yourself too, right?

642
00:25:26,820 --> 00:25:30,260
I'm giving you an example of what I would call this, right?

643
00:25:32,860 --> 00:25:34,940
First off, will you forgive yourself?

644
00:25:37,460 --> 00:25:40,420
Now, let's think about this.

645
00:25:40,420 --> 00:25:43,540
People are quick to judge somebody

646
00:25:43,540 --> 00:25:47,220
for their own doing to you, or of you, right?

647
00:25:47,220 --> 00:25:48,980
So if I get mad at somebody,

648
00:25:48,980 --> 00:25:50,260
somebody do me wrong, right?

649
00:25:50,260 --> 00:25:51,340
They cheat on me, right?

650
00:25:52,220 --> 00:25:55,220
They cheat on me in the sense of,

651
00:25:55,220 --> 00:25:57,740
they cheated on me with a mentality of something,

652
00:25:57,740 --> 00:26:01,140
like I said, that I did, right?

653
00:26:01,140 --> 00:26:04,500
And sometimes it may not even be a thing of a mentality

654
00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:05,340
of something that I did,

655
00:26:05,340 --> 00:26:08,540
it could be something of their mentality that they did, right?

656
00:26:09,900 --> 00:26:11,460
So I look at it like this.

657
00:26:13,500 --> 00:26:16,540
I've messed up so many times on my own, right?

658
00:26:16,540 --> 00:26:20,580
Some of them times to say,

659
00:26:20,580 --> 00:26:25,140
did I really love myself, my own self, right?

660
00:26:27,380 --> 00:26:29,340
You know, somebody like, you know,

661
00:26:29,340 --> 00:26:32,820
that time you get yourself into a bad state

662
00:26:32,820 --> 00:26:34,460
and you lose everything.

663
00:26:36,100 --> 00:26:38,660
You didn't just end up just losing everything at one time.

664
00:26:38,660 --> 00:26:40,220
It took some time to get there.

665
00:26:40,220 --> 00:26:41,900
How you have been to that point?

666
00:26:41,900 --> 00:26:43,020
To what, say what?

667
00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:46,180
Like where you lost some things, almost lost everything.

668
00:26:46,180 --> 00:26:48,500
Yeah, been close.

669
00:26:48,500 --> 00:26:51,100
And I'm gonna say it like this.

670
00:26:51,100 --> 00:26:54,060
The hardest thing to do that a lot of people

671
00:26:54,060 --> 00:26:55,860
don't want to do is forgive.

672
00:26:56,820 --> 00:26:59,780
And I'm gonna tell you what can happen though

673
00:26:59,780 --> 00:27:00,980
when you forgive.

674
00:27:00,980 --> 00:27:03,780
And this is something, and I'm not even speaking of saying

675
00:27:03,780 --> 00:27:07,580
this has to be for everybody in that relationship mentality.

676
00:27:07,580 --> 00:27:12,300
Yeah, some people can say and get away from a situation

677
00:27:12,300 --> 00:27:14,220
of saying, well, if you're gonna cheat on me,

678
00:27:14,220 --> 00:27:16,060
you might as well just leave me alone, right?

679
00:27:16,060 --> 00:27:19,620
But just because, and I'm gonna be honest with you,

680
00:27:20,620 --> 00:27:23,500
just because somebody cheats on you doesn't mean that

681
00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:25,660
per se that they don't love you.

682
00:27:25,660 --> 00:27:27,980
That's not a thing of saying that they don't love you.

683
00:27:27,980 --> 00:27:28,900
I'm gonna tell you why.

684
00:27:28,900 --> 00:27:31,300
I don't know, so you, oh, oh, oh.

685
00:27:31,300 --> 00:27:33,460
So it's levels to this though.

686
00:27:33,460 --> 00:27:34,540
It's levels. It's levels.

687
00:27:34,540 --> 00:27:37,020
It's levels. Okay, so like if you cheating,

688
00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:41,420
if you cheating, we gonna say to put this in a PG way,

689
00:27:41,420 --> 00:27:45,180
if you cheat and you have unprotected sex with somebody

690
00:27:45,180 --> 00:27:47,300
and get pregnant.

691
00:27:49,460 --> 00:27:50,700
That ain't love to me, bruh.

692
00:27:50,700 --> 00:27:51,940
Like that ain't love to me.

693
00:27:51,940 --> 00:27:53,020
That's not love to me. Okay, I say this.

694
00:27:53,020 --> 00:27:54,340
You know what I'm saying? I say this.

695
00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:56,980
That's not love to me. Okay, I say this.

696
00:27:56,980 --> 00:27:58,740
Cause it's levels. It's levels.

697
00:27:58,740 --> 00:28:00,300
But remember love hurts.

698
00:28:01,940 --> 00:28:04,100
So that's why a lot of people scared to get married too.

699
00:28:04,100 --> 00:28:06,140
That's the part. A lot of people scared to get married too.

700
00:28:06,140 --> 00:28:08,100
You gonna have to be, you gonna have to be.

701
00:28:08,100 --> 00:28:09,580
A lot of people scared to get married too.

702
00:28:09,580 --> 00:28:12,620
That's why, because people love breaks you down.

703
00:28:12,620 --> 00:28:17,500
It takes a part of you that it's supposed to be that way.

704
00:28:17,500 --> 00:28:21,260
People don't want, see people so afraid of getting hurt.

705
00:28:21,260 --> 00:28:22,100
Me?

706
00:28:22,980 --> 00:28:26,180
But see, this is what affects you.

707
00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:30,700
What affects you is where either you're gonna be hurt

708
00:28:30,700 --> 00:28:32,940
via love or you gonna hurt yourself.

709
00:28:32,940 --> 00:28:34,860
I'm gonna tell you why.

710
00:28:34,860 --> 00:28:36,180
One thing is this.

711
00:28:37,820 --> 00:28:39,700
Even if you're not in a relationship,

712
00:28:39,700 --> 00:28:42,300
you're gonna go through battles and struggles on your own.

713
00:28:42,300 --> 00:28:45,620
Hear what I just say. On your own.

714
00:28:47,300 --> 00:28:50,740
It's not up to you and the other person,

715
00:28:50,740 --> 00:28:52,540
well it's up to you and the other person

716
00:28:52,540 --> 00:28:54,100
to make the decisions to say that,

717
00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:55,460
look, we gonna be together.

718
00:28:56,460 --> 00:28:58,940
But just remember when you gonna be with them,

719
00:28:58,940 --> 00:29:01,260
when you're going to be serious by them

720
00:29:01,260 --> 00:29:03,300
and make that commitment to them,

721
00:29:03,300 --> 00:29:05,820
remember they are going to do something

722
00:29:05,820 --> 00:29:08,020
that's going to be heinous.

723
00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:10,300
They're gonna do something. They're gonna mess up.

724
00:29:10,300 --> 00:29:14,380
They're gonna do something to you or around you

725
00:29:14,380 --> 00:29:17,700
that you're going to feel that it was totally wrong.

726
00:29:17,700 --> 00:29:19,700
But more than one time though, the same thing.

727
00:29:19,700 --> 00:29:20,540
Yes.

728
00:29:20,540 --> 00:29:21,540
So that's a mistake.

729
00:29:21,540 --> 00:29:23,420
A mistake, I'm gonna be honest with you.

730
00:29:23,420 --> 00:29:25,260
And this is one thing I always say.

731
00:29:25,260 --> 00:29:29,380
People always go to the fact of it's something sexual

732
00:29:30,940 --> 00:29:33,500
that makes it thing of cheat.

733
00:29:33,500 --> 00:29:36,060
Cheating is way deeper than sexual.

734
00:29:36,060 --> 00:29:38,100
Let's be real.

735
00:29:38,100 --> 00:29:40,340
Sometimes people go cheat with somebody

736
00:29:40,340 --> 00:29:41,820
that they had no intentions of loving,

737
00:29:41,820 --> 00:29:43,700
they'll never love, they'll never especially,

738
00:29:43,700 --> 00:29:45,100
probably not even see them again.

739
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:46,580
And that's dangerous, bro.

740
00:29:46,580 --> 00:29:48,300
So hear what I'm saying.

741
00:29:48,300 --> 00:29:49,540
Hear what I'm saying.

742
00:29:49,540 --> 00:29:54,260
The reason being things get that way is because of changes.

743
00:29:54,260 --> 00:29:57,060
People are scared of the constant changes

744
00:29:57,060 --> 00:30:00,020
that a relationship is going to take them through.

745
00:30:00,020 --> 00:30:04,020
If that is the case, yeah, stay away from marriage.

746
00:30:04,020 --> 00:30:07,020
Don't go into a marriage if that's the first thing

747
00:30:07,020 --> 00:30:10,100
that's on your mind or that is on your mind,

748
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,180
is a constant thing on your mind.

749
00:30:12,180 --> 00:30:13,340
If you go into a marriage,

750
00:30:13,340 --> 00:30:16,820
go into a marriage expecting changes.

751
00:30:16,820 --> 00:30:19,460
Because the case of, I mean, I've seen people,

752
00:30:19,460 --> 00:30:20,980
I've seen some of the best couples

753
00:30:20,980 --> 00:30:23,780
and the best relationships go through the hardest things

754
00:30:24,740 --> 00:30:26,220
and make it out.

755
00:30:26,220 --> 00:30:29,380
The reason being because they built their condition.

756
00:30:29,380 --> 00:30:32,020
They've gone through so much together,

757
00:30:32,020 --> 00:30:33,220
they know how to get through things together.

758
00:30:33,220 --> 00:30:35,220
That's what I was gonna, that was my next point.

759
00:30:35,220 --> 00:30:36,060
Yeah.

760
00:30:36,060 --> 00:30:37,900
I feel like now in my life,

761
00:30:37,900 --> 00:30:41,420
if I can get into a relationship like that

762
00:30:41,420 --> 00:30:44,180
and take the hurt more a little bit,

763
00:30:44,180 --> 00:30:45,460
because I've been there.

764
00:30:45,460 --> 00:30:46,940
This movie come out,

765
00:30:46,940 --> 00:30:48,820
Quentin Murdoch the movie, man, you gonna see,

766
00:30:48,820 --> 00:30:50,500
I've been there, I done went through it,

767
00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:51,980
you know what I'm saying, with these girls.

768
00:30:51,980 --> 00:30:55,300
So I know now how it feels.

769
00:30:55,300 --> 00:30:56,980
So it's like, it's gonna hurt,

770
00:30:56,980 --> 00:30:58,980
but you can't get me no worse than that.

771
00:30:58,980 --> 00:30:59,820
That was, you know what I'm saying?

772
00:30:59,820 --> 00:31:01,020
Again, that's what you just.

773
00:31:01,020 --> 00:31:03,820
So yeah, you like experiences.

774
00:31:03,820 --> 00:31:07,220
It builds character and power within.

775
00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,060
So yeah.

776
00:31:08,060 --> 00:31:10,740
And see, that's the part that you think about

777
00:31:10,740 --> 00:31:12,540
with the relationship right there.

778
00:31:12,540 --> 00:31:13,500
With a marriage.

779
00:31:13,500 --> 00:31:17,260
But like, was your first hurt before you got married though?

780
00:31:17,260 --> 00:31:18,700
Like did you experience the worst hurt?

781
00:31:18,700 --> 00:31:21,100
That's how you can deal with things

782
00:31:21,100 --> 00:31:22,300
that come in your marriage now?

783
00:31:22,300 --> 00:31:24,900
Like did you experience something bad

784
00:31:24,900 --> 00:31:27,500
that crushed you from a girl you was dating?

785
00:31:27,500 --> 00:31:29,660
Not, yes, but no.

786
00:31:29,660 --> 00:31:30,500
Okay.

787
00:31:30,500 --> 00:31:33,940
The most hurtful moments,

788
00:31:33,940 --> 00:31:36,380
and I'm gonna tell you how this becomes this.

789
00:31:36,380 --> 00:31:40,380
The most hurtful moments were when I was married.

790
00:31:40,380 --> 00:31:41,220
Okay.

791
00:31:41,220 --> 00:31:44,380
The reason being, they're my most hurtful moments

792
00:31:44,380 --> 00:31:49,380
is because the case of that's where my heart is.

793
00:31:49,420 --> 00:31:50,260
Yeah.

794
00:31:50,260 --> 00:31:52,420
So for the case of being that is there,

795
00:31:52,420 --> 00:31:53,700
that's what it's going to feel like.

796
00:31:53,700 --> 00:31:56,420
But this is what I've learned and gained

797
00:31:56,420 --> 00:32:01,180
from being that, it's the case of,

798
00:32:03,140 --> 00:32:06,780
realistically, the person that you're in the relationship

799
00:32:06,780 --> 00:32:11,060
with, if they never ever tell you truths,

800
00:32:11,060 --> 00:32:13,980
if they never ever present truths,

801
00:32:13,980 --> 00:32:15,220
if they're never open,

802
00:32:15,220 --> 00:32:18,580
if they're never up front about things,

803
00:32:18,580 --> 00:32:20,780
even if it's the case that they messed up, right?

804
00:32:20,780 --> 00:32:23,380
Even if somebody messes up and they're strong enough

805
00:32:23,380 --> 00:32:25,900
to come talk to you and be in your face

806
00:32:25,900 --> 00:32:29,140
and tell you, oh, hey, I messed up.

807
00:32:29,140 --> 00:32:30,740
I did this totally wrong.

808
00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:33,340
I didn't mean to do this.

809
00:32:33,340 --> 00:32:35,860
And this is what I've learned too.

810
00:32:35,860 --> 00:32:39,940
You have to learn to how to accept a mistake.

811
00:32:39,940 --> 00:32:42,060
That's the hardest thing to do.

812
00:32:42,060 --> 00:32:45,380
The reason being, the reasons I say this is because,

813
00:32:46,460 --> 00:32:48,420
look, it don't have to be just like I said,

814
00:32:48,420 --> 00:32:50,900
it doesn't have to just be something financial.

815
00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:52,300
I mean, sexual.

816
00:32:52,300 --> 00:32:54,180
It could be something financial.

817
00:32:54,180 --> 00:32:57,700
It could be something, they left the garage door open,

818
00:32:57,700 --> 00:33:01,300
somebody came in and stole all the stuff out the cars.

819
00:33:01,300 --> 00:33:05,380
They left the sprinkler on in the backyard all night long,

820
00:33:05,380 --> 00:33:07,660
and now the backyard is flooded.

821
00:33:07,660 --> 00:33:09,700
So that just channels them to just.

822
00:33:09,700 --> 00:33:11,820
They could have broke their leg.

823
00:33:11,820 --> 00:33:13,860
Y'all could have, she could have broke her leg

824
00:33:13,860 --> 00:33:15,580
going down the steps.

825
00:33:15,580 --> 00:33:19,180
And the case of, you left your shoe

826
00:33:19,180 --> 00:33:21,140
sitting right there on the edge of the step,

827
00:33:21,140 --> 00:33:23,140
and she stripped over your shoe going down.

828
00:33:23,140 --> 00:33:25,380
This is the stuff that you gotta think about

829
00:33:25,380 --> 00:33:27,740
that you're going to go through something

830
00:33:27,740 --> 00:33:31,380
in your relationship that is going to present

831
00:33:31,380 --> 00:33:35,460
whether that person with you is worthy or not.

832
00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:37,500
That's what I'm trying to get to.

833
00:33:37,500 --> 00:33:39,780
Somebody's worthiness is going to show.

834
00:33:39,780 --> 00:33:42,540
It does, I'm telling you just from experience.

835
00:33:42,540 --> 00:33:43,900
This deep, man.

836
00:33:43,900 --> 00:33:45,540
Like, I'm scared of.

837
00:33:45,540 --> 00:33:48,580
But I told you, a real one is going to stick around.

838
00:33:48,580 --> 00:33:51,100
You don't have to ask a real one to stick around.

839
00:33:51,100 --> 00:33:52,980
A real one is gonna stick around on their own.

840
00:33:52,980 --> 00:33:54,260
They ain't gonna leave you hanging.

841
00:33:54,260 --> 00:33:55,980
They ain't gonna leave you high and dry.

842
00:33:55,980 --> 00:33:58,140
And this is the part I've realized.

843
00:33:59,140 --> 00:34:02,660
Some of the people that I've felt

844
00:34:02,660 --> 00:34:04,660
were my greatest people in my life

845
00:34:04,660 --> 00:34:06,740
aren't in my life no more.

846
00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:07,580
That's deep.

847
00:34:07,580 --> 00:34:09,940
And that's the case of.

848
00:34:09,940 --> 00:34:12,540
And with that, I've learned, like I told you,

849
00:34:12,540 --> 00:34:15,100
if somebody wants to be there, they gonna be there.

850
00:34:15,100 --> 00:34:17,540
You don't gotta, bro, you do not have to ask.

851
00:34:17,540 --> 00:34:20,020
I can look at my exes, some of my exes with they

852
00:34:20,020 --> 00:34:21,500
and be happy for them.

853
00:34:21,500 --> 00:34:22,940
That's all you can do.

854
00:34:22,940 --> 00:34:24,060
I'm happy for them.

855
00:34:24,060 --> 00:34:25,220
Cause I'm happy.

856
00:34:25,220 --> 00:34:26,620
You know, we had our time.

857
00:34:26,620 --> 00:34:27,940
We had our time.

858
00:34:27,940 --> 00:34:30,820
We ain't good, good, but we still good.

859
00:34:30,820 --> 00:34:32,620
Yeah, that's it.

860
00:34:32,620 --> 00:34:33,980
That's that song right there.

861
00:34:33,980 --> 00:34:35,820
It's a vibe.

862
00:34:35,820 --> 00:34:37,580
Bro, that's a hit right there.

863
00:34:37,580 --> 00:34:38,420
It's a vibe.

864
00:34:38,420 --> 00:34:39,380
Are you surprised?

865
00:34:39,380 --> 00:34:42,540
It's a vibe that people want to be with you, man.

866
00:34:42,540 --> 00:34:44,780
If your vibe is so dope,

867
00:34:44,780 --> 00:34:46,300
you will have somebody on your arm.

868
00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:49,300
I don't care if the situation, how good or how bad things go.

869
00:34:49,300 --> 00:34:51,020
Again, ain't none of the.

870
00:34:51,020 --> 00:34:54,940
The problem is, is nobody business what goes on in the bag.

871
00:34:54,940 --> 00:34:56,060
Keep people out your business.

872
00:34:56,060 --> 00:34:57,860
You don't gotta worry about that with your relationship.

873
00:34:57,860 --> 00:34:58,700
That's the problem.

874
00:34:58,700 --> 00:35:00,420
Too many people got too many people going on

875
00:35:00,420 --> 00:35:01,260
in their relationship.

876
00:35:01,260 --> 00:35:02,660
And that's what makes things hard

877
00:35:02,660 --> 00:35:04,380
to make things be a better relationship.

878
00:35:04,380 --> 00:35:06,820
So now let's bring this to a close.

879
00:35:06,820 --> 00:35:07,660
Cause it's Thanksgiving.

880
00:35:07,660 --> 00:35:09,020
I want y'all to get out of here

881
00:35:09,020 --> 00:35:10,300
and go enjoy y'all families.

882
00:35:10,300 --> 00:35:12,580
You gotta watch some games and stuff and eat.

883
00:35:12,580 --> 00:35:15,580
Take this with you as you go.

884
00:35:15,580 --> 00:35:19,420
And this Thanksgiving 2023,

885
00:35:19,420 --> 00:35:23,500
be a blessing to yourself first.

886
00:35:23,500 --> 00:35:24,620
Like I just told Q,

887
00:35:25,740 --> 00:35:29,500
how can you be a great person

888
00:35:29,500 --> 00:35:31,260
if you're not being a great person?

889
00:35:31,260 --> 00:35:32,740
And it starts with yourself.

890
00:35:32,740 --> 00:35:36,100
Be a great person for your own self, firstly.

891
00:35:36,100 --> 00:35:38,140
Take care of yourself, manage you,

892
00:35:38,140 --> 00:35:39,220
learn how to manage you

893
00:35:39,220 --> 00:35:41,620
before you start adding extra things to your life.

894
00:35:41,620 --> 00:35:45,740
Like love, people, kids, animals,

895
00:35:45,740 --> 00:35:47,820
extra stuff that you ain't got no business adding to your life.

896
00:35:47,820 --> 00:35:49,340
Don't do all that stuff.

897
00:35:49,340 --> 00:35:50,900
Manage what you can.

898
00:35:50,900 --> 00:35:55,020
Learn to manage what you have is an increment, small.

899
00:35:55,020 --> 00:35:57,180
Think small, don't think so big.

900
00:35:57,180 --> 00:35:59,060
Everybody's trying to go to the moon

901
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:01,340
and they don't have moon money.

902
00:36:02,220 --> 00:36:04,020
Why go to the moon and you ain't got moon money?

903
00:36:04,020 --> 00:36:05,780
Same thing with the situation with a marriage.

904
00:36:05,780 --> 00:36:07,100
Why get into a marriage

905
00:36:07,100 --> 00:36:08,620
and you're not financially together?

906
00:36:08,620 --> 00:36:10,340
Bro, beat them moments, bro.

907
00:36:10,340 --> 00:36:11,180
Why get into marriage

908
00:36:11,180 --> 00:36:12,420
and you're not financially together?

909
00:36:12,420 --> 00:36:14,140
If you know finances is your problem,

910
00:36:14,140 --> 00:36:16,100
do not get into a marriage.

911
00:36:16,100 --> 00:36:17,780
Don't get into a relationship period.

912
00:36:17,780 --> 00:36:18,860
Finances are your problem.

913
00:36:18,860 --> 00:36:20,900
Don't get into a relationship.

914
00:36:20,900 --> 00:36:24,780
If you can't, if you find somebody y'all on the same level,

915
00:36:24,780 --> 00:36:26,500
y'all wanna come up together, do that.

916
00:36:26,500 --> 00:36:27,340
That's hard though.

917
00:36:27,340 --> 00:36:28,180
It's hard.

918
00:36:28,180 --> 00:36:30,780
What if you're like, damn, I want this girl right now.

919
00:36:30,780 --> 00:36:32,100
Hey, you know what I'm saying?

920
00:36:32,100 --> 00:36:33,820
Some people got that feeling.

921
00:36:33,820 --> 00:36:36,780
I know I'm broke, but I need this girl right now.

922
00:36:36,780 --> 00:36:37,620
Some people got that feeling.

923
00:36:37,620 --> 00:36:39,700
Because if I don't get her, somebody else gonna get her.

924
00:36:39,700 --> 00:36:41,020
Some people got that feeling.

925
00:36:41,020 --> 00:36:42,300
And if you do,

926
00:36:42,300 --> 00:36:44,380
just make sure that y'all on the same level.

927
00:36:44,380 --> 00:36:46,860
If y'all on the same level, things can work.

928
00:36:46,860 --> 00:36:50,780
But if you feel like your time and your energy

929
00:36:50,780 --> 00:36:52,300
is just for this one moment,

930
00:36:52,300 --> 00:36:54,340
make sure you let that person know, look,

931
00:36:54,340 --> 00:36:55,620
I just want you for this moment.

932
00:36:55,620 --> 00:36:57,140
I don't want you for a long time.

933
00:36:57,140 --> 00:36:57,980
Just for this moment.

934
00:36:57,980 --> 00:36:58,820
That's keeping it real.

935
00:36:58,820 --> 00:36:59,660
That's what.

936
00:36:59,660 --> 00:37:00,500
Yeah, that's for the moment.

937
00:37:00,500 --> 00:37:01,660
Make sure they know that.

938
00:37:01,660 --> 00:37:03,580
Again, there's another level of truth

939
00:37:03,580 --> 00:37:06,660
in being truthful to yourself and to somebody else.

940
00:37:06,660 --> 00:37:07,500
Tell them the truth.

941
00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:08,340
Yeah.

942
00:37:08,340 --> 00:37:09,160
Be honest.

943
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,060
I don't want you before today, baby.

944
00:37:11,060 --> 00:37:11,980
That's all.

945
00:37:11,980 --> 00:37:13,180
I just want you today.

946
00:37:13,180 --> 00:37:14,740
I don't want you no more after today.

947
00:37:14,740 --> 00:37:15,580
That's it.

948
00:37:15,580 --> 00:37:16,420
That's being honest.

949
00:37:16,420 --> 00:37:18,180
We ain't good good, but we still good.

950
00:37:18,180 --> 00:37:19,020
Yeah.

951
00:37:19,020 --> 00:37:20,580
Yeah.

952
00:37:20,580 --> 00:37:23,900
But again, y'all enjoy y'all Thanksgiving.

953
00:37:23,900 --> 00:37:24,740
Save me a plate.

954
00:37:24,740 --> 00:37:25,580
Enjoy your family.

955
00:37:25,580 --> 00:37:26,460
Save me a plate.

956
00:37:26,460 --> 00:37:28,820
Eat good, continue to love on your family.

957
00:37:28,820 --> 00:37:29,660
Yessir.

958
00:37:29,660 --> 00:37:32,740
To the end of eternity.

959
00:37:32,740 --> 00:37:34,100
Just continue to grow from here.

960
00:37:34,100 --> 00:37:35,460
Like I said, man,

961
00:37:35,460 --> 00:37:36,920
fix what's wrong.

962
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:37,760
Fix it now.

963
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,900
Communicate it, get it out.

964
00:37:39,780 --> 00:37:40,820
And if nothing else,

965
00:37:42,380 --> 00:37:43,820
we're here for y'all.

966
00:37:43,820 --> 00:37:45,860
We'll listen.

967
00:37:45,860 --> 00:37:47,940
Hit us up under this video.

968
00:37:47,940 --> 00:37:50,980
Messages, something, email us again.

969
00:37:50,980 --> 00:37:52,660
I'm giving away a movie.

970
00:37:52,660 --> 00:37:54,260
If you ain't paid attention,

971
00:37:54,260 --> 00:37:59,060
here's the link again to my email, our email.

972
00:37:59,060 --> 00:38:00,900
I'm gonna put some contacts down here.

973
00:38:00,900 --> 00:38:03,700
My email and Not Just Music Podcast email.

974
00:38:03,700 --> 00:38:05,900
Whoever hits one of these emails first,

975
00:38:05,900 --> 00:38:07,320
I'm gonna give y'all that movie.

976
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,060
Access to it, free access to it.

977
00:38:09,060 --> 00:38:10,760
So again, we love y'all.

978
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:11,860
Happy Thanksgiving.

979
00:38:11,860 --> 00:38:12,680
Peace.

980
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,680
See y'all next time.