Emails Over DMs

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We were speaking on emails and a lot of the times

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when emails circulate, people think like emails

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aren't the professional route. In hindsight though,

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emails are really the most professionalist way

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to communicate. with a business, the most important

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way. Now, let me ask you a question. For the

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sake of your business, as in now, your plan changed,

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your connection, the way you connect totally

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changed. Do you feel that emails are the best

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way? Absolutely. And the reason why is because

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for one, it's more professional. You can send

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links, you can send all your contact, all everything

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that's needed, your bios, everything that's needed

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in that email. Secondly, me personally, Instagram,

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Facebook, social medias have heard the natural

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way of communicating, which I, what I mean by

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that is email, phone calls, pick up the phone.

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Pick up the phone call, you know, like let's

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meetings. Let's meet up after we email each other.

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Let's get a face to face meeting or not even

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face to face a zoomie. You know what I'm saying?

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So forms of communication need to be changed

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back to how they were. I think a lot of people

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think like they say, hit me in the DMS, hit me

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on Facebook Messenger, hit me on Instagram DM,

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hit me on X DM. I'm gonna tell you, If you want

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to keep communication with me, for one, that's

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not the best communication for me and you to

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have on those social media platforms, because

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firstly, I don't stay logged in to social media.

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I'm really on social media. Also, business people

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don't have all day to spend on social media.

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Yeah, like you can ask any big dog celebrity.

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You're not going to reach them. before booking

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on Facebook Messenger. No, you're not going to

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reach them for a booking or something serious

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on X or something. No, you got a personally email

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or called that number. You have to get in touch

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with them. So same thing with this. If you if

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you if we talking on Messenger and I tell you,

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OK, what's your email? If you don't send me the

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email and you just keep writing me on Messenger,

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most chances I'm not gonna get back with you.

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I'm not gonna get back with you. And I might

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get back later. And I just feel like that's a

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pet peeve of mine. I just feel like business

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minded people need to react in business ways

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and they need to translate that into their communication

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ways also. Be professional. You know what I'm

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saying? Cause like if you, I just need to know

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you're trying and you're serious for one. I need

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to know you're real. and your business is real,

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what you represent, for one. See ya. When we

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talked about this before, and you know, it's,

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I don't know why y 'all feel that social media

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is the way to communicate. They not tell you

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social media hurt people. We don't tell you that.

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Yo, listen. This can go in with artists, and

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if you're an artist or any business profession

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or whatever, I've told you previous episodes,

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social media has hurt the form of communicating.

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Be right down the street, be right next door.

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You will post something about somebody, but won't

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knock on the door next door to tell them how

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you feel. Like I said, what happened to emails?

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What happened to picking up the phone, calling?

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You know, yeah, what happened to zoom me so I

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want to see you face to face FaceTime even there

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you go. That's that these are the Touchable you

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have this technology and y 'all are not using

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it. Yeah, you got all these resources. You're

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not using I'm sorry, bro The touchable route

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that most are going is in the wrong direction

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man, that's the This probably be the shortest,

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that's the best five minutes podcast we could

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probably ever did, even though we just had to

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restart this. So let me say this. Communication

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is what I was going to talk about in a secondary

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way here. But the most important part though

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was I was going to speak on was how you communicate,

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even if you don't have somebody's phone number.

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That was my angle of this whole entire situation,

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what I was gonna speak on with the celebratory

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situation. But the emails that come in lately

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have actually been pretty good. And I applaud

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those that do sin. I mean, y 'all have been pristine.

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Even if even if it was that that y 'all y 'all

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even might know, you know, get a little things

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that were asked, you know, some things might

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have been a little off, but at the same time,

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you're trying. There you go. You put in the effort.

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You show you care when people don't think to

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do anymore. Like you just said, I'm tired of

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looking at messages and messenger and all these

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DM situations. and the crowd of BS that comes

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in that you can't even see where y 'all messages

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are because... Bro, when somebody want to continue

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conversation with you on Messenger, what's your

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most likely thing that you're going to say to

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them or ask them eventually? The first thing

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I'm going to, I'm going to put the email right

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there. OK, thank you. You're going to ask, OK,

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do you have a number, a business number? Do you

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have an email that I can reach you on? I'm not

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going to continue to write you on here. I'm not

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going to scare you off via Messenger, because

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I'm going to tell you all why. I'm not going

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to scare you off. But what I will tell you to

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do is use it lightly. Lightly, you know, I mean

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that like you just say it don't it's not good

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for business Do the business model pleasure and

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toy in around and communicate and I feel like,

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you know Family. Yeah Yeah business. It's not

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things that go along like with what I was saying

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about the radio situation. And listen, let me

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say this, because let me add this in. those that

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were asking and the details for NJMP radio. And

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this is the part that I'm going to add into for

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the sake of what you just said, communicating

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the right way. When you send an email professionally,

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a professional email does not have to mean like

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the most business oriented person has to write

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it. All it has to do is have the correct detail.

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The detail of what I meant was make sure that

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the name the names match the name matches the

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song on the net the name on the song matches

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the name within that email your artist name basic

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if you communicate that way secondly the details

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are you must must make sure that the song name

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is correct because we want to make sure that

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you get you get your credit there you go that

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you get the credit In the end, so if the song

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is spinning, you'll get credit for it via sound

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exchange. So next thing, because let me make

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sure that you heard that, the name, what your

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artistry name is, the name of your song, the

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title, basically the title of the song. Third

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and dairy, as I was just speaking of, give a

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little detail of the song, just so. I understand.

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So we understand. So people that's listening

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can understand. So if you had an idea, the sake

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of it, they hit us up about the song, we could

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tell you what's going on about us or tell them

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what's going on about your song. Nextly and lastly,

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this was the big thing. Q just said it and I'mma

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say it again. Your email. Your email, your email.

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Email address. Make sure that your email address

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is valid. Make sure your email address is valid.

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Meaning, and also, if you don't have your notifications

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turned on for your emails, make sure you cut

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them on. Stop living under the rock, y 'all.

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Cut your email notifications on and take them

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on. Can I have one in? Can I have another crucial

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one in? And this is crucial. Oh my God, this

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is crucial. Man. If you have an email, and you

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get a lot of emails through that Pacific email,

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Gmail gives you an option where you can make

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one, two emails, I think, or maybe more. But

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I know you can at least make two. Make you a

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business email. Also, like, far from alone from

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your personal email, because there might be emails

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coming in, rich business emails. that's going

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through your personal that you're not seeing

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because of all the overshadowing of the other

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emails. So organization, organized, being organized,

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people being organized, you can miss out on a

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crucial email if you're not organized. So create

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you a business email. Also create you a personal

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email and Gmail allows you to do that. You can

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actually make a business in a person. That's

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detailed. That's part of details, y 'all. These

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are things that will help you win. Like you said,

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start a new, just a strict email for just business

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sake. Not even for your personal, not for your

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parents, not for your friends, not for, just

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strictly for your business. That's it. It ain't

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gotta be, you can just separate it. And then

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just let that one be the one that goes off when

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it's time for notifications to come through.

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Let that one be it. These are the details that

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must go through to help us help you, you know,

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help us help you. Again, we thank y 'all for

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allowing us 5000 downloads. It's not rare. It's

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not easy. Y 'all are the reason why 5000 downloads

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is possible. Not Just Music Podcast is going

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to keep moving and keep continued help, continued

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blessings to those that can, you know, that are

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looking for it. Because a lot of y 'all don't

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have a guy. Y 'all don't have a roadmap. And

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especially why not get it from somebody that's,

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or some people that have experienced at a level

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at what it is, especially when it comes to this

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music situation. I mean, I know some - Can I

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tell you something speaking of music? Speaking

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of music, I want to cut this in. It's crazy.

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We reached five thousand downloads via Not Just

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Music podcast. I personally reached five thousand

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stream downloads through Apple Music in the United

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States. OK, so so that's crazy. Like both achievements

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on both ends. And I'm just saying that to say

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that long as you're consistent people and you're

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out there and you're and you're taking in all

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the knowledge that we're giving you. Because

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we're speaking from experience. All right. Well,

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a lot of the things I say, well, most of the

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things, all the things I say, I've tried it or

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I had to learn this way. I used to do it the

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wrong way, but I had to correct it. I didn't

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really have people before the wine came in my

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life to tell me about business or this or that

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the correct way. I had to learn on my own. I

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had to follow my head. So be thankful. Be thankful

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that, you know what I'm saying? Y 'all tune in

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because obviously y 'all watching, y 'all listening,

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all them downloads. And we thank you for that.

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Take in the knowledge that we're giving you and

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trying to help you so you don't have to make

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those mistakes that we might have made. And you

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can actually get it quicker than we got it possible.

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But we're thankful for the progress. Like you

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say, slowly but surely, it's progressing. You

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know, we might get our blessings shortening a

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lot of people. But it's going to be the right

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way. And when we get it, it's going to last.

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I guarantee you more than the ones that just

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got it handed to them or got it fast, because

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they're going to blow it. We know the process

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and we're going to appreciate the process whether

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we down or up, because we've been on both spectrums.

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You know what I'm saying? So that's what it's

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about, people. All right. Now, those who need

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help, remember to continue to keep keep. Keep,

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keep, keep asking for help. In the sense of though,

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asking of help doesn't mean you stick around

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and just drown in help. You just learn from it

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and move and grow. Like you said, continue consistency,

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working on consistency. That's what the word

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should be. Keep working on consistency as much

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as you can till you get to the point where what

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you do and how you do and move about your business,

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meaning the little things that you do, whether

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it's just sending emails. Remember that. Consistency.

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find people to send, there's plenty of people

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to send emails to, and the thing is, it's true,

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how much more blessings can come through emails

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right now because people aren't taking the email

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part serious. So for Q to bring it up today,

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made total sense about the sense of communication.

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You know, we need to find - I'm tired of y 'all

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not doing the proper communication, man. We need

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to find better ways. Yup. Y 'all better find

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a better way. Communicate with me, man. Like

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talk to me. Talk to me the right way. Call me.

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I got the I got two phones. I got two phones

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like I got one for the business and one for the

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people, you know, like, come on now. I can give

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you my business number. There's no excuses why

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you can't professionally contact Quincy Murdaugh

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for some business. I'm going to say that. OK,

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I'm done. Y 'all better learn from something.

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If you ain't learning from something, come here.

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We got some greatness to give, as I said. Autism

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community, I love y 'all. Disability community,

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I love y 'all. And guess what? Podcast community,

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I love y 'all too, man. Let's continue to grow.

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Let's continue to keep moving forward. Let's

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continue to push something and push things to

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people that are knowledgeable. And until next

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time, we gonna take more jump shots and we'll

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see y 'all next time. Peace.