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April 5, 2024

The Next Move Is Up To You ft Duan & Q - Episode 83

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The next move is up to you. Let's begin this three part series. This is easier said than done most times. Why? If you are not doing anything the "next" will never be. Our lives depend on us. Make a solid decision and stand on it. Never doubt it. Believe in it. We have to be of value to our own self first. Then spread that love and value amongst people. The one thing that's still needed in the broken world is love. So now. What's your next move?

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Yo Q what up?

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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?

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Welcome

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to not

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just music

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where we keep it real

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and honest

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and honest always

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Whats going on its your boy Dwarne Burino

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not just music podcast Quincy Murdock in the buildings

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always and the Thursday

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whats happening man how you doing?

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Everything good man whats up?

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Good good

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How's everything been coming

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since the last shoot?

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Everything good

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Bless, bless Holly Faber

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Life is what you make it

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you know its what I make it

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so everything good man

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family good

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We're just getting closer to you

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But yeah man everything good man

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How about you man? Everythings good man

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No complaints

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Keep trying

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Taking shots

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Taking advantage of

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life's daily

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tribulations

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daily trials

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and daily goods

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I'm not going to sit here and make it seem like

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everythings just like a

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bubble of bad because

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people need good energy man that's why

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we come and do this stuff

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we come and sit in front of these cameras and sit here like we mad

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and upset and angry at life

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but we try to be motivators and

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motivate peoples mindsets to be better and do better

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and to gain

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and give knowledge and do things and talk about

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people that have done things

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and had to deal with the struggles

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and had to deal with the pains

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of growing and getting older

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and wiser and things to that

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nature but

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as we've been talking

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the whole situation of

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inventors and black inventors and things

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of that nature

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that's one thing that I see that's

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been a very successful topic

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regardless of whatever we think

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to whatever everybody else does it's not about

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flying with the winds it's about keeping

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focused and staying on task with what we have to do

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that's what we plan to do here

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not just music podcasts it's not going to be anything

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changing up we may deviate and talk about

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different topics and different things but it's a lot

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to talk about but again

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the key is it's not a lot of people talking about

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actual black topics

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that's having like actual bubble behind it

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like it means something

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it's not like no sit up and be a headache or

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what does that mean

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a lot of this stuff is straight forward straight to the point

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then it's like I say

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sticking highly to

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doing research

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lately

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again it's not like

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the internet is small the internet is huge

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I was talking to somebody

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an actual artist

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that's out of Cali this week

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and one thing me and him

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we were very very

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at each other about

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one type of conversation

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and that type of conversation is

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understanding that

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business is

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bigger than a lot of

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people put

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a business has a lot more to do

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with more than just saying I have a business

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and one of

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those things was you know

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taking the

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initiative of using social

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media as like a home for

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business and you know nothing

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is nothing wrong

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with using a social

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platform to run

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a business but that's what you just make

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it that's what it's going

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to cap out it's going to top off because it's

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only a social

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media business

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a lot of people

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think inside the box like that

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there's nothing wrong with that

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but the hardest part is there's a

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world outside of social media

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and the heart

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the heart you go ahead

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right but a little bit

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about my city Statesville

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it's a rural area man

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there's really no opportunity there we've been having

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an empty mall there

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we have one mall empty mall

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that basically is just an empty

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building right now with no stores

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it's been in

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there you know been up for years

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and it's like buildings

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does not use and

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this is getting

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on what you're talking about because it is you know

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you have to step out but a lot

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of places like where you're at also

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is a hinder you know

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I'm saying because everybody that's tuned in

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is familiar with Statesville

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my city my town no

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there's no opportunity there like

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the attitudes

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are dead there like the job forces

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are dead like it's

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really it's like a dead city

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know what I'm saying so in order to

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to go out to the other

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cities and states

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it takes money

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and a lot of people

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want to get out like me included I want to move

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you know I want to move out of my city

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but it's like financially

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I'm not at the point where I can

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just up and move right now

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because of the you know the economy

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you know what I'm saying but

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I get what you're saying on that

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I wanted to throw that in there because

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you know that's another thing that holds

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a lot of business people back

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is economic and

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financial you know

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struggles you know trying to move

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because there's plenty of places I

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feel like I could prosper in just

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people in general like

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business people instead

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of just a small town like Statesville

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because there's really no opportunity there

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but yeah

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Speaking of opportunity do you feel that with you speaking on it do you feel there's ways to fix it or you just express it?

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I mean I work a 9 to 5 right now

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I work a 9 to 5

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like the previous episode we were talking about

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I was talking about

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people guiding you or educating you on things

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I think that's what's lacking in my situation

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like you know to make that move

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like to actually

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you know what I'm saying

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to walk me through it a little bit

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because you know

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just getting out of the

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you know just relocating is a different thing when you never did it before

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so having somebody educate you on the steps and stuff like that

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so that's really what it is

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I mean

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and of course financially but then again

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like I might have the finances

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but I might not even be educated enough to know

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like I might be able to get grants on houses or this here

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I don't know how this city is

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or how this country or how that state is

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so it might be rules that can help me

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so educating myself and having educators around me

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I think that would help a big deal

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different strokes for different folks

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that's really the thing

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everybody doesn't have the same mentality

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that's going to be the first thing

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everybody's an individual

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it's not like a rule to money

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the only way to make money is you got to go make it

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considerably

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I think that's the thing

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considerably

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a person of interest that seems worthy of moving

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is always going to be up to that person to me

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I mean just

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I was the person I had to move

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you know what I'm saying

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like I stayed in Charlotte

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but I still moved to the outskirts of Charlotte

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to do what was needed

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speaking of an internet based situation

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like I was saying

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I mean you got to look at it

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the internet is only but so wide

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it's only but so far you can spread yourself

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as a business

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one, two

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more so the mentality

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as well again

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we talk about like somebody that wants something

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I mean there's this thing of want

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and then there's this thing of need

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you got to pick which one is on your plate first

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if you need it

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you got to go get what you need first

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before you go and take off of what you want

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that's the hardest thing

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especially trying to rationalize things in your mind

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from day to day

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nine to five

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or beyond

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whatever shift you work

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how many hours are you working

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how much time

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I've heard that a lot of times from people in their early 20s

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they ask a simple question

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how do you get where you get to

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honestly it's just about

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the consistency of what you want

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if you're consistently going to work

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and doing it at the level

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and the achievable level

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that's possibly human

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you got to do it how you feel

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hardest thing is to get going

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and staying at it

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and creating a space where you know

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that the money can be saved

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and taken care of

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but at the same time

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where the money should go to

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again it should be up to what you need

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not per se what you want

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in the cases of need

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where you stay at

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water

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running water, you got power

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do you have food

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what are you doing daily

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do you have paper towels, tissue in your house

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those are the necessities

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do you got what you need to get back and forth to work

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if you got a car, car insurance

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if you don't have a car

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you're paying for Uber, taxi driver

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whatever it is that you have

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it has to be a sensible situation for you to go day by day

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but to me, and this is going to what you said

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here are these opportunities for grants

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here are these opportunities for loans

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whichever one you want

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you have to go look for it

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their banks, their organizations

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and that's part of the reason why I was saying to him

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it's not the case of you need the people

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if you need the funds, you can go get funds

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but you have to go to the right places

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not everybody gives funds the same exact way

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one thing that a lot of people don't do is

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this is as first as a business

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if the case of the business is really serious

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and you're serious about it

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get your LLC license

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LLC's prove that you want to be a company

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that's the first thing

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this is the meeting grounds for people who need to know this

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LLC is the first step that you're going to shoot for

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when it's time to become

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you're going to say that you want to be a business

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go for that

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the reason being

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this is a stamp for your approval

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to anybody that's willing to work with you hand in hand

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meaning if you want to go get a loan in your business

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you got to have an LLC

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if you want a grant to your business

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you have to have an LLC

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no way around it

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there goes the hint right there

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that's the big hint

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if you don't have money

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if you don't have money to move your business

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LLC first

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first thing first

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if you don't have funds

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you're going to need an LLC

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and that's the thing

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you shouldn't be worrying about that

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before you even go get your pick your name

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put a name on anything

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create anything

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get your LLC

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reason being

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the LLC is going to solidify you as

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this is a business

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meaning if this company wants to give you a million dollars

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they can't give a million dollars to your name

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they can

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but the thing is

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the name is going to a risk

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it's a risk factor

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of going to a name

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put it on the LLC

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here's the business side of it

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here's what they're going to look at

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they're going to look at

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okay this is business

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we can put that as business right off

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we can put that as this

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you can mark it as a certain way

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when they say thing of

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it's an LLC

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meaning that

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it makes you

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solidifies you

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as a brand

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a lot of people won't take

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that first step to go for an LLC

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they just get out

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go start selling their little trinkets

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you know they little

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they selling little stuff on the side of the road

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selling bracelets

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and selling jewelry

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and selling these things

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that they get it popping

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and they ain't got some money

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a good group of money going

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but then they're using that money

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to not put it back in the business

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they're putting it into their personal pockets

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your business ain't winning that way

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it's not going to win

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so if you need money

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and you're trying to make money from your business

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that's not the way to do it

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right out the gate

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until your money is making

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so much that you can live off of that business

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off of that situation

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that's when you're considering yourself

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a big time situation

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but most people

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won't take

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that first step

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to say that look

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I'm going to get my LLC

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or whatever that license is

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that you choose to pick to call yourself a corporation

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or a business

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that is the first thing that

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I don't care where you go

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how you do it

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find your state

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look it up online

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it's easy to find on Google

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just search it

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there will be a way that you're going to have to pay something

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in that guide

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or down the road

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you're going to have to spend some money somewhere for that LLC

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but again

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if it's the case of you know your business

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needs money

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that's the first thing, get an LLC

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the second thing is to me

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need to put together a business plan

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write it out

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what makes your business so good

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such of a purpose

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that somebody is willing to take

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a chance and give you money

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that's

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people just ask your own self first

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if somebody came up to you and said

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I need money for a business and you know

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if you're the type of person

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you stingy with your money you ain't going to just give it to them

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you know, what's the reason

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why, why should I give you this money

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you know

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there has to be a business plan

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put together that is so precise

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to what you need and what you're going to do

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to make whoever this company is

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look into what you have going on

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that's another

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opportunity right there

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a lot of people don't know like Coca-Cola

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you guys, all these big companies

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like Lay's and

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excuse me, Frito Lay

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all these companies

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that's willing Pepsi

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giving away stuff

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but if you don't have a business plan

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put together

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it's going to be hard for them to understand

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exactly what you are coming for

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what you need from them

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so the next part of thirdly

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thing meaning

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off of coming off of a business plan

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write it out

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like type it up

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make it something that's very nice

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and the last part

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of all of this is

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when you make it type it up, make it look very nice

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make sure that it's in a form or letter

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or the situation of a letter

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and make sure that it makes sense

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make sure it's legible, make sure you don't mess up any words in it

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you know, fine tune it

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the last part to me

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is the biggest part

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which is what I was saying to

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him, you know

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if it's the case of

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if you own the internet and own

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tied into the internet

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how many people actually do Google searches anymore?

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how many people actually

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go into Google and be like look

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I need to find this or I need to find that

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I need to see this, I need to see that

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there are plenty

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of people who are looking to give

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grants, the biggest thing is

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you have to go onto their websites

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go into whatever

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portal they have on their websites

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they have these

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some of them just easy, sponsorship

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go into their sponsorship page or whatever

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they're using, click on it

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see what they're looking for, see what

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the actions are that they're willing to do

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read into it, they have it to where you

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can send your info, there's your chance

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right there, you have your

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business plan, you have what you typed

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up, what you need, send it to them

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see what they say

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this is, I mean

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there is so much, so many opportunities

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sitting on the table, 10,000, 15,000

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20,000 dollars, 50,000

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sitting on the table right now, but nobody

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knows how to get to it, that's one reason why

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right there, that's the, I gave away one

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of the biggest ways to get money to your

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business, easily

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and the case is, you had

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that opportunity, you could push that

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it's not a thing of, it's not

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going to be ever a thing of, it's

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not an opportunity to become a bigger

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business than what you are, it's just

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what your mind is willing to tell you

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to do, you know, if you're at that point

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though, it's like, over your head

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take a step back, look at it

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take a step back, look at it

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and look at it in the sense of

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okay, what did I do?

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what was I doing? what put me in that

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position to be in that position?

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then what am I going to do to fix that part

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that I'm not paying attention to?

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and that's why I always approach it

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like

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debt, business kinda, I don't

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go, cause I know

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you talked about

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you know, going head in, we talked

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about that on the Think A Homer, so

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like going head in

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like, my

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personality is like, it's easy for me

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to walk away

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from it, cause I don't really, you know

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I'm saying, go all in with it

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and I think that's just

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a

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that's just a characteristic that I grew

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man, like, you know I'm saying

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like, and

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I know there's people out here that

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like me, and that's why I want to explain it

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it's a characteristic that you

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grow, like, kinda like

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a person that's so used to doing

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things by themselves, and

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they feel like

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if I lose this, I

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have nothing, I have nobody to

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rely on, I have nothing to rely on

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so that person is kinda

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they wanna do it, but it's like

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I gotta be cautious and careful

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also, so it's like that little bit

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of doubt in your mind

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but you got that hunger to do it

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but it's like

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gambling bro, you know what I'm saying

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if you gamble, you know

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unfortunately, the win bid, you gotta

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put all your chips up, sometimes like

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and you might lose them

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and that's the thing, some people

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on their own, some people

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you know, like

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that might be all they got, you know

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they fall, they fall

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you know, like, yes

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they might have parents physically alive

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but some parents are not even

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financially stable now

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like, you know, with the economy, like as you started out

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a lot of people are getting older

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you know, we're getting older

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you know what I'm saying, our health could get bad

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any day, so that's

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nothing to take lightly either

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your health, man, like people dying

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left and right, so

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you know, that plays a

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part into it too, what would you

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say about that, like people that's

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kinda like-minded like me

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and like people like me, like

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you know, with those situations

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that risk

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yeah, that's

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that's one I hate to

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I mean, and that's why

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and I wanna

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I wanna explain it on my part because

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to people like you

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that's looking at, cause you're

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you're a risk taker, for sure

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you know what I'm saying, and I know

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sometimes you will

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look at me like

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I'm not saying this, but I'm saying like

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why is he not on my

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mindset that I have, and it's like

568
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,000
yeah, I have the intentions

569
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,000
I wanna go where you're going

570
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,000
but it's like, if I lose

571
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,000
this, what do I do, like if I

572
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,000
if I put all this in this

573
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,000
and it don't work, what do I do

574
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,000
that's kinda how it is

575
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,000
and I know it's not

576
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,000
right, but it's just that

577
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,000
it's just how it is based off

578
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,000
past experiences in life

579
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,000
bro, you know what I'm saying

580
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,000
growing up, you know what I'm saying

581
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,000
I mean, real life

582
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,000
you said it, growing up

583
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,000
you grow up

584
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,000
and

585
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,000
the only

586
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,000
let me tell you the only difference in mentality I see

587
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,000
yeah

588
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,000
and this is not to say

589
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,000
take this personally

590
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,000
I don't take nothing personal bro

591
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,000
I'm talking just period, for a cursing period

592
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,000
yeah, anybody

593
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,000
you can relax, calm down, calm down

594
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,000
relax, there's nothing I'm gonna say that's insulting

595
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,000
nah, I like that, I like honesty

596
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,000
so in the case of the mentality

597
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,000
the mentality of what you have

598
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,000
is, you're saying that

599
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,000
you're scarred from your past

600
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,000
that's gonna be the problem

601
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,000
that's your problem

602
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,000
so how do you get over that though?

603
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,000
you have to get over it, that's the part

604
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,000
see the thing is, the scars that I got

605
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,000
I got over them

606
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,000
and if it was

607
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,000
something that you

608
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,000
how you say you lose it all

609
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,000
you're going to lose it all

610
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,000
but you're going to have to get it back

611
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,000
regardless of, so let's say it like this

612
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,000
but can I ask, did you have a

613
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,000
support system?

614
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,000
when you lost most of these

615
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,000
battles? see I'm gonna

616
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,000
tell you this, like

617
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,000
and I'm not trying to compare bro

618
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,000
I have a mother

619
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,000
that's currently

620
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,000
not working, her health

621
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000
is bad, my father was absent

622
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,000
my whole life, you know what I'm saying

623
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,000
my grandparents

624
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,000
can't really, you know they older

625
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,000
they don't work

626
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,000
you know what I'm saying, they barely getting by too

627
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,000
that's all I had

628
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,000
that was the main family I had

629
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,000
to raise me, so

630
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,000
everybody is looking at me

631
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,000
if this, like

632
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,000
even the music or anything I do

633
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,000
they always looked at me like

634
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,000
if this don't work

635
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,000
this is your fault, this is on UQ

636
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,000
are you going to make this work?

637
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,000
so imagine that pressure

638
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,000
on a person like, you know what I'm saying

639
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,000
instead of a person, people being like

640
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,000
oh you got this Q, we in this together

641
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,000
like we support you, they're looking at

642
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000
me like

643
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,000
are you going to make this work?

644
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,000
what are you going to do?

645
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,000
you know what I'm saying, and it's good

646
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,000
to have that pressure

647
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,000
but it's good to have

648
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,000
the support too, like

649
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,000
since adolescence

650
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,000
to a baby

651
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,000
to now, I've always had that

652
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,000
pressure in, what are you going to do?

653
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,000
all eyes on you Q, I never have somebody

654
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,000
be like open arms, like

655
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,000
come here, we got you, I got you, like what are you

656
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,000
going to do Q? so the pressure

657
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,000
that's the mindset that I have

658
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,000
when it comes to business

659
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,000
I like that, that's what I'm saying

660
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,000
I'm open to

661
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,000
and it's deep

662
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,000
so let me get you

663
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,000
let me get you, let's say it like this

664
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:47,000
you speak of

665
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,000
this support thing a lot

666
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,000
let me get you

667
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,000
that's something you need to

668
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,000
stop taking to heart

669
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,000
let me get you why

670
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,000
let me give you a real reason why

671
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,000
I'm talking about time, right?

672
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,000
when I told you about time two homosols ago

673
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,000
when I got back, I told you about time

674
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,000
let me tell you about time

675
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,000
you only have so much time with the people

676
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,000
that support you to be here

677
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,000
so just look at this, you talk about how your mom

678
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,000
is sick, you know, things just going through

679
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,000
things, you know, she can't work, you know

680
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,000
you're not having your dad like that, you have your grandparents

681
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,000
your grandparents really not able

682
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,000
and a lot of people looking at Q, it's like Q, this is going to happen Q

683
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,000
this has got to happen Q, if it don't happen

684
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,000
it's only you, it's only you, everything going to fall out

685
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,000
so let me ask you this, would you put that kind of

686
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,000
pressure on your kids?

687
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,000
based off how

688
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,000
be honest, would you put that

689
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,000
would you put that kind of pressure on your kids?

690
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,000
based off how I feel

691
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,000
no, based off how I feel

692
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,000
no, because

693
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,000
the worst thing

694
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,000
like this is what somebody told me

695
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,000
my father wasn't there

696
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,000
and you spoke on this before

697
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,000
my father wasn't there, but

698
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,000
the worst part

699
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,000
is having a father there

700
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,000
and not even being a father

701
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,000
I read that you not even be in my life

702
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,000
you know what I'm saying, so to have

703
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,000
physically have people around you

704
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,000
not just family, but even

705
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,000
like just people that you did

706
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,000
movies with, that you

707
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,000
they breathing

708
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,000
they alive, and they don't

709
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,000
support you, excuse my

710
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,000
that stuff hurt

711
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,000
and it's like

712
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,000
we went into it together

713
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,000
on good terms

714
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,000
so I'm looking at it like

715
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,000
that's just my loyalty

716
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,000
I guess, I expect

717
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,000
more from people than I should

718
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,000
that's another thing

719
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,000
I expect people to be

720
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,000
real like me

721
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,000
I expect that same genuine love

722
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,000
that I give, but I'm learning

723
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,000
it's not always returned

724
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,000
it ain't always returned

725
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,000
it ain't always returned

726
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,000
that's a

727
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,000
I

728
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,000
let's say it like this, and again

729
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,000
the support

730
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,000
there's a different thing from

731
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,000
having support

732
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,000
than

733
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,000
a person that's doing a job

734
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,000
it's two things

735
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,000
and it's like, just like how you said

736
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,000
you got some people who come to a job

737
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,000
go to McDonald's and work everyday, go to Bojangles and work everyday

738
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,000
go to Wendy's and work everyday

739
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,000
everybody in that building ain't got the same mentality

740
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,000
because some just coming there

741
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,000
this is just a job

742
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,000
once I do that, I do what I need to do

743
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,000
to make the job look good, I look good at it

744
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,000
guess what, when this job over with

745
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,000
I'm gone

746
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,000
y'all ain't gonna hear from me, y'all ain't gonna see me on the weekend

747
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,000
we ain't going out to have no fun

748
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,000
we ain't going to drink together

749
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,000
we ain't going to do none of that

750
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,000
all we gonna do is

751
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,000
work together, that's it

752
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,000
ain't nothing outside of that

753
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,000
meaning, like you just said

754
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,000
support

755
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,000
I done been in positions where

756
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,000
let me get you, this is me

757
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,000
I been in a position where

758
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,000
I had to start a business

759
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,000
by myself, ain't nobody believe in it

760
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,000
the first thing is though

761
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,000
I had to believe in it

762
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,000
and I keep telling

763
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,000
like you and saying

764
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,000
support, support is only gonna be

765
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,000
for those who want to be

766
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,000
supportive

767
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,000
you can work with a person

768
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,000
dead on everything

769
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,000
put them in

770
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,000
everything is if

771
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,000
I'm gonna put all this stuff on the line with you

772
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,000
or if I'm gonna put all of this

773
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,000
opportunity

774
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,000
talent on the line with you

775
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,000
there's different ways you can put things on the line

776
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,000
with a person, but the biggest one

777
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,000
as I've always said is

778
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,000
when we say support, support is hard to come by

779
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,000
the reason why support is hard

780
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,000
to come by is because nobody

781
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,000
believes like you

782
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,000
nobody believes

783
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,000
like you, and I'm gonna give you a big

784
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,000
example, right

785
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,000
and it's gotta do with locations

786
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,000
like I was talking about too

787
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,000
I give you a good thing on location

788
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,000
I'm gonna tell you a good thing on it, right

789
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,000
I've been in a position where I've been in a

790
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,000
great location and I still didn't win

791
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,000
I've been in

792
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,000
great locations for short

793
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,000
periods of time, couple days

794
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,000
and felt the energy

795
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,000
felt people energy, Atlanta

796
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,000
so let me give you an example

797
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,000
so you just said it, you just said it

798
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,000
so here's what you just said

799
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,000
it's not about the case of

800
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,000
like can I say your experience

801
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,000
I had, I was just

802
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,000
I went my first trip to Atlanta

803
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,000
I was just coming out of a store

804
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,000
and somebody had

805
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,000
gave me, a black gentleman

806
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,000
had gave me an Atlanta brave ticket

807
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,000
just out the blue

808
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,000
just genuine, you know what I'm saying

809
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,000
I was like wow, that was my introduction to Atlanta

810
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,000
I'm like man

811
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,000
that's how they do it down here

812
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,000
he's like man you a brother man, you black

813
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,000
you know what I'm saying, I never felt

814
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,000
that kind of look so that right there

815
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,000
made me, like you

816
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,000
never witnessed that, felt that

817
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,000
it made you like dang

818
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,000
the mindset is different here

819
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,000
you know what I'm saying, it's different

820
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000
hospitality lies differently

821
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,000
in every, any place you go to though

822
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,000
right, right, it don't

823
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,000
it is a different, like I said it's a different

824
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,000
fit for everybody, right

825
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,000
if you ain't in the right place

826
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,000
you have to make that change your own

827
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,000
it's not like everybody

828
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,000
is going to be able to make a change and be like

829
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,000
oh this change was for the best

830
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,000
but let me say this though

831
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,000
still, there are people that go all out

832
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,000
and move and spend every dollar

833
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,000
they have

834
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,000
and redo their life when they get to

835
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,000
the next place that they are trying to get to

836
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,000
even without support

837
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,000
and see this is the thing

838
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,000
you have to find that place

839
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,000
where if I got $5,000

840
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000
sitting to the side

841
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,000
I could at least take $1,000

842
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,000
of this to put

843
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,000
myself in position to move

844
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000
even going out places bro

845
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000
even just going out, you meet

846
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,000
new people, like I'm going to Dreamville

847
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,000
next week

848
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,000
I'm going to Dreamville

849
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000
I don't know when it's coming out but

850
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and you never know

851
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people lose the concept

852
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of these kind of events

853
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like you just came from a cruise

854
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it's different people

855
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coming from all over

856
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you never know who you can connect with

857
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you never know who you're going to see

858
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and that's the thing about moving

859
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it's not even big as moving

860
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visiting somewhere and building

861
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a connection

862
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,000
something simple as that

863
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because when you're stuck in a

864
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town like mine, Statesville

865
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it damn just, you feel like this is it

866
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you know what I'm saying, is this it?

867
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,000
is this all that

868
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,000
comes with life? is this all that comes

869
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,000
with support? is this all that comes with

870
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but we haven't even seen

871
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twice, half the world

872
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is out there, half of it is out there