The Next Move Is Up To You Part 2 ft Duan & Q - Episode 84

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Yo Q what up?

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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?

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Welcome

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to not

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just music

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where we keep it real

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and honest

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and honest always

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Again

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your

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your mental

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is you're going to treat yourself

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and how you should treat yourself

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but you gotta remember how you

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treat yourself is it

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the case of

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that you're going into it with the right mentality

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or you're not going into it with the right mentality

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like me like I give you an example

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I go

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I go make sense of things

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that I do so let me just let's

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go for example right so

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I'm putting in

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work okay

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you putting in work to go

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either relax

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have fun

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or you're putting in work to

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fuel a business or

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you're putting in

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to eat or you're putting in

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to take care of home there's

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different levels of what you're doing with

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what if you're trying to do all of those

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I'm a single man

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that's another thing

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but see this is another thing see

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I'm going to be honest with you

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business and I want a family too

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I'm business and I want you know

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what I'm saying you're in a bigger position

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though than you give yourself

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so for example

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for example

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you buy yourself

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in a sense

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you have kids but I'm going to tell you

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being having a spouse

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don't mean you save money

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I don't know

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it ain't even

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it ain't even about

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it ain't even about save

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no this is crucial what I'm about to say though

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when it comes to a spouse bro

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it ain't even about saving money

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it's about having that mental

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stability that

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genuine care that support from

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a person to me

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it's about money but it's not

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that's not the first thing in my mind

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I'm going to be honest with you

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I'm going to be honest I'm just giving you

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this is what I'm saying you been married before

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I've been in a relationship

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have you been married before

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so you can't speak on something you don't know yet

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but listen

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I'm telling you what I would look

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in just even in a relationship

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what I want from a woman

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I get your idea and your mentality

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of it but what your

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ideal situation

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is is going to be altered

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in a lot of ways

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why you say that? just because

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you don't know who you're going to be with

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you can't

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go into a relationship with an ideal

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but if you never even had

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but look if you never even

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had the slightest thing in support

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and a woman gives you just that

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you're going to feel like

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that's the world like oh my god

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I've never had a woman support me like

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this wow

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money is not even going to be on my mind

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at that point because

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a woman might not

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even bought me food in my life or whatever

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except my momma and she does it

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this is what kind of man I am and that's going to

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touch me that's going to I'm going to really be

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like oh my god and I've been around

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women that done things

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that no woman has ever done and

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they're like wow I just did that

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they shot like you taking

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this to heart I'm like damn like it's big

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you know what I'm saying like I ain't

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never had the slightest little things

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man you know what I'm saying to somebody say

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thank you for doing that for me

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let me ask you a question

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do you feel

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do you feel

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you feel the reward of it right

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right you just say it

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let me give you a big example

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of this right

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most cases

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for me

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and we speaking of support right

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just as I say speaking of support nothing

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nothing to value right

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support is only

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a thing of

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confidence

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right for you

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meaning it gives you a sense

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of secureness right

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to me

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but she still

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but she still can hold it down if I

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fall though like she's gonna be there as a

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support

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instead of like I told

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you I had people looking at me like

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what are you gonna do what are you gonna do

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what are you gonna do Q I hope

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this work I hope this work instead of

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we got this we in

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this you know what I'm saying you fall

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I'm here for you you know what I'm saying

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you got this like who

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gonna be my cheerleader I don't I ain't have no cheerleader

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I ain't never had no

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cheerleader that's what I'm saying like

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the little is staying bro

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and I think I don't feel the reason why I'm

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saying the the part of support

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the older I get I'm not

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looking for it

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let me say that but you had it though right

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it's not the case I had it

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it's not let me let me

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let me give you this you talking from

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a mindset of a man that's been married

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and been with a woman over a decade

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you know what I'm saying but you're still

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speaking but I'm telling you what you're doing

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you're trying to tell me

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is it I don't know the case of it

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this ain't an argument bro

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I'm not arguing bro I'm not arguing

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I'm just speaking what I know

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I'm just speaking what I know I listen to what you're saying

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I just want to get one point across

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to you the way that

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you feel about a woman

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and what you expect from

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a woman you're not supposed to

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go into a relationship looking

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or expecting anything

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the reason being if you're

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coming in looking and expecting

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you're going to get totally the opposite of what

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you're looking for so let's

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be honest right you gotta

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and this is you go you go to the

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old Q Q was just going out smashing

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chicks down left and right right

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true story I ain't thinking nothing

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about friendships I ain't thinking about nothing about

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being serious I ain't thinking about nothing but

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you're building a rapport with your own

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self I'm what hold on hold on

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I'm what you're building a

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rapport to your own

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hit me out

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hit me out so you're going to

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look at women a certain

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way so like how you

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say you see a chick

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dressed a certain way that

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mentality is okay well

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she might be easy to get to

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or easy accessible just because

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the way she dressed right like you

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said chicks posting pics on

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Instagram and you know they got

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their butt out or whatever

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and sometimes in real life none of these

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chicks even dress like that listen I

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study women I got a degree in women

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studying now you see why I'm going let me finish

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let me finish go ahead

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cause I know cause look they be on

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most of them that I smashed was on

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the same game that I was on hence

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they just wanted to smash hence

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the reason why I say

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let me give you an example like this right

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say if you went into

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a relationship you

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didn't have two kids yeah

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it was just you yeah

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you didn't have to worry about

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paying out for kids it was just

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like I say it's just you right

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yeah so this is the thing

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that there's going to be a thing

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going on and I got an understandable baby

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mama by the way which is okay

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that's a beautiful thing yeah yeah I don't have to

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deal with that you know in the beginning it was

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wild but now it's at a

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great place so let me say this there's

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one supporter I don't care

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if she don't support business

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she's not a supporter in that but it's the case

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she support yeah don't give me

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no headache

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but that

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just hit me out

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hit me out see

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God don't give us blessings

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the way we feel they should come

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honestly you think I'm sleeping on my blessings

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I'm not sleeping on your blessings

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you're not sleeping on your blessings

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you're sleeping on yourself

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I'm still going to come down and back to this

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I was going to eventually get back to it

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but let me cut the chase a little bit

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the way you think is

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totally fine

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you're in endangerment

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mentality is like okay I'm

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not going to make this bad decision

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because of this I'm not going to make

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this bad decision because of that I'm not going to make

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this bad decision because of this right?

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so let me give you an example

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like I

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told you I hadn't been on a trip

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me and my lady had not

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been on a trip in two years

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considerably it

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was really just because

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it was time to buckle down

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it was time to work it was time to get the money

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up it was time to get all that stuff going

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it was time to do stuff like that right?

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that's what I

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have support in

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and what?

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hear what I just said

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she didn't ask to go on vacation?

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it ain't no ask to go on vacation

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it ain't bring up nothing about vacation

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it was about let's get this money up

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support is support let's work

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and now you get where I'm going with this

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see the thing is the part where

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your business comes in

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is where is your business that's why it's called

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your business it's a business it's an independent

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business it's owned by Q

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Q is the only one who can touch it make it move

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make it cry make it

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growl make it fool he is the

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only one the person that's

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behind you they're just behind you

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for whatever they can help you with though

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they can help you with but don't look for

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them to be like oh

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here's some extra money for your business

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to go do it don't look at it like that

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I'm looking at it the wrong way

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I got you now

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I'm going to be honest your baby mama

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that's a blessing

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but nah but

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it might be ugly moments

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it may be crazy moments

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but in a sensible manner

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that you can still come around

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and they know

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that's Q's son that's Q's daughter

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you know that

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it's nothing to the case of

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you showed up to the basketball games

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you're a dad it ain't like a situation

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where there's this situation where can't nobody

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ever come around I know some dudes like

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literally bro no but I was threatened though

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like you know her sisters was threatening me

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at the basketball game and that's again everybody ain't going to feel the same

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yeah but she didn't

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have a problem with it me being there

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my baby mama but the sister had

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a problem with me you know what I'm saying

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the whole family still got

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issues you know some family members got

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issues with me you know what I'm saying

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you know and this goes

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into the support you know what I'm saying

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and like I asked her

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and this another

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thing too I was like you know I got a movie

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out you going to support it

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and she was like

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and you tell me if this is wrong she

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was like I

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don't want to watch something that I'm involved with

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because it's going to make me go back in that time

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I respect you telling your story

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I don't have a problem with you putting your story

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out but I just can't watch

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it because it's going to take me back

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now am I selfish and this is a question

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for you am I selfish for being like

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wow so you ain't going to support my movie

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or should I understand her point of

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view like she gave me to go

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like okay it's cool

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you put the movie out

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so in a sense she's supporting

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that supporting the move for me putting it

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out but she's not supporting it

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by purchasing or watching it

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because she's in it

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it's sound

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you know what I'm saying yeah

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yeah and this goes into

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what we talking about support she has

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a very

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hmm

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and it's not

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bad it's not bad

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I'm going to tell you why

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nobody wants to look bad

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let's start there she don't

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want to look bad on

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the account to what you say

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if she feels she wants it to be

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let me look at it let me make

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sense of it did I do that

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yeah if it take me back to that moment

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and that time and it

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but to me in a sense

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if she gave you a green

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light that was support

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because you think about it bro

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that whole movie was

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a sense of you really putting

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your heart out

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there right and this is

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this is another situation

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to think about this right

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knowing that you have a movie now

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this is how you should move

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and this is giving you a small insight

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I just got this in my head like this

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the way you move

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with this situation now is

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you have a movie under your belt

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you need to find and brand

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an LLC to whatever you going

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to brand it to

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what you need to do now is

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you need to find people

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who are

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grantable

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situations where they can be like

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oh we have

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a $5000 budget we

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can give you to shoot your

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next movie

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but they won't believe it

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until again

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come up and get you a company

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if it's hold on make it go ahead and make

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that an LLC I got a script too

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and the script is crazy so the thing

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is what you go for you don't need a script

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what you go for now is you tell them

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that you're a production company

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movie production company

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you're into creating

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movies basically your movie production company

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your movie

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production company you did

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your first movie such and such

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hold on, hold on

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so basically you're explaining

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what the movie was, who it was

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under, how you did it the first

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time and you're looking to

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shoot a second movie

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you understand the situation

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of that it takes money, it takes time

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but I want it to be better than the first

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you want to improve

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and not only

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just by improving it will be a big

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help for to receive these

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grants from who this person is

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so I can promote it, promotion

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to whatever you need it for

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the biggest thing is though

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to make sure that you have

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an LLC and the

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reason why I was telling you the reason why I got

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LLC's for Not Just Music

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Podcast is because the case of

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moving forward I want to be able to do

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things

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what we're doing now is the setup

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this is the build

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this is the building, this is what we're

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doing, this all of this, this is the building

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it was going to take this

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in a sense but it

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wasn't going to just take just this, it was going to take

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the mentality too so even

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if we only had one camera, if we were just working with one

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phone, we sitting in front of one phone and we

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recording, we putting these podcasts

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together at the end of the day

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so you're saying the LLC's don't come in on this part

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it comes in on the business part

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business, if you're

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going to consider yourself to say this is

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this is a business

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this is something, the reason why I'm telling

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you this is because if you get

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cut on your name

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you're going to get

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everything that you have taken

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from you

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Quincy Murdoch is going to get

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every dollar

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every account stripped

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if you come up

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on the wrong side of something, business wise

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so is that why they suing

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Diddy and Not Bad Boy?

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do they sue, how do they sue

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when a civil suit happens

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against a person, they can

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just sue a person instead of a brand

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see

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the thing is, Diddy was operating

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things outside of his brand

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so anything he was doing, but what if it was within

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the business and he could sue them

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if it's receivable, paperwork

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worthy, yeah he's good

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he did a lot of what you call

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those, the

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what's the forms you signed

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1099 forms

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you promised not to say

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anything or have any discussion

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so

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let's say it like this

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this is simplified

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anything that you do under

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an LLC is under the

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LLC, anything you do

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not under the LLC

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is not under the LLC

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so if Diddy just telling

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people, look come through to the house

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come kick it with me, just come kick it

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with me, and it didn't come with a contract

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sign this

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to say this, like how Drake

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said he put together a sex contract

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because in case of somebody has sex with him they gotta sign

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this contract before that

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but what if it was a promise for a

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movie or a Grammy or something

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and you had to do this

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to get the

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free beat

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like if the wine

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okay, I'm not

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but like if you was like

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you were working with a female

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and you was like no you gotta do this sexual

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favor for me to get this beat, I give it to you

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for free

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does that go under the business?

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that goes under the situation

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of you made it personal

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so anything, cause see I'm gonna tell you why

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you can do stuff

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that be like okay you gonna do this for my

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business but you gotta remember

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what you say to a person

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is always gonna mess you up

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no this is always something somebody

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said to a person, well

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he said he made a sexual

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a sexual advance at me

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while he was walking down the hall

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yeah you at work but again

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certain things you can't, certain lines

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you can't cross to consider

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yourself that this is a business

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like an LLC license like I said

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it literally is not a thing of saying that it's

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protecting your soul cause you still

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can get every dollar took from you with

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having an LLC

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that's why I'm talking to you

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about it to see what's within the limits

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of the LLC

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it makes you liable, it's a liability

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license so how about

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about the movie

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okay if I got an LLC

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for the movie right

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but I

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made somebody feel comfortable with character

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in the movie, they can sue me

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instead of the LLC

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like the company right

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basically like so this is what you do

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take a

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take the route of contracting

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but I ain't worrying about that though

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that's why I told you

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take the route of contracting, if you contract stuff

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contracts put

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people in a position where they

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have to

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look, you gotta do this, you have to do this

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you have to do this and you have to do this

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all of this is under that LLC

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yes, as long as you have a logo

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saying that this under

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this is under the laws of

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this is under the like it will be for Not Just Music

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this is under the laws of Not Just Music Podcast

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LLC

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and we like I send that form out to people

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before they come on the show

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it makes it

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liable in a sense of via

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the contracted situation for

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Not Just Music Podcast

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so if it comes back, it goes back to Not Just Music Podcast

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it don't come back on me

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because the case of is for the business rights

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what the rights of the business are

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that's what you gotta go by the laws of that business

566
00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,000
if you ain't going by the laws of that business and whatever that

567
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contract meant, it ain't got nothing to do with it

568
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so once you start saying

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that's a lot of info man, that's deep

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you know what I'm saying, cause bro

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you can classify, you can try to classify

572
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,000
under something and it's not even under that

573
00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,000
that's why I was like

574
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,000
that's why I think a lot of people get jammed up too man

575
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,000
cause they don't know

576
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,000
all the time

577
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,000
I'm gonna tell you another situation where people can mess

578
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,000
themselves up with that too, like you just said

579
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,000
word of mouth

580
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,000
that screw people up, I'm gonna tell you why

581
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,000
I'm gonna say why word of mouth hurts

582
00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,000
text messages, receipts

583
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,000
word of mouth is like one of the worst

584
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,000
she say he say

585
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,000
if it ain't promotion

586
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000
word of mouth, outside of

587
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,000
promotional word of mouth

588
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000
that's a bunch of

589
00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000
you can get yourself in some mess, Diddy's in some mess

590
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,000
just let's say that

591
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,000
Trump is in some mess

592
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000
run in your mouth, you can't put it on

593
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,000
your mouth, and once it

594
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000
comes out your mouth, that's your problem

595
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,000
cause people can really sue you

596
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,000
for stuff that comes out your mouth

597
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,000
that's it

598
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000
if Diddy had that bad

599
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,000
situation bro, and the crazy

600
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,000
part is, it ain't just one person

601
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,000
everybody that has

602
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000
probably touched Diddy's

603
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,000
listen though, all this came out

604
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,000
all this stuff

605
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,000
all these allegations really started hitting

606
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,000
the room when he

607
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,000
settled that lawsuit so quickly with Cassie

608
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000
cause people bought him money

609
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,000
which people, which

610
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,000
you know what I'm saying, which shows me that

611
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,000
like maybe a lot of people see a payday

612
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,000
they do, even if it wasn't

613
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000
like I said, it might have been

614
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000
and I ain't trying to down

615
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,000
no victim I'm sorry, but a person might

616
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,000
have loved it in that moment

617
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000
like I've had cases where

618
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,000
I've had relationships with

619
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,000
girls where

620
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,000
see I'ma put my stuff, I don't need them coming after me like

621
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,000
Diddy, but

622
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,000
we both knew

623
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,000
all of us knew what it was

624
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,000
everything that we did

625
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000
like

626
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,000
you know, like

627
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000
yo, you good, you need it

628
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,000
I'm good, you know, we both good

629
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000
we understand, but the problem

630
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,000
comes is when you years down the line

631
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,000
try to play a victim

632
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,000
like aw, he made me

633
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,000
do this, I didn't want to do it

634
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,000
but nah, you knew you was

635
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000
getting something from this, I was getting something from this

636
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,000
you know what I'm saying, like and that's

637
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,000
what, it's crazy man

638
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000
that's why, like you say them contracts man

639
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,000
again, if you dealing with people

640
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,000
and that's why I say like the past

641
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,000
will haunt you if you

642
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000
did something that you wasn't

643
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,000
supposed to do with somebody

644
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,000
it will come back on you man

645
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,000
like, I mean you gotta look at what Diddy was doing

646
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,000
this man has literally been giving things away

647
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,000
gave everybody all they masters

648
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,000
gave everybody this, it's like he was

649
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,000
making safe room for

650
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000
just in case something go down

651
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,000
I already gave it, look, y'all got y'all masters

652
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,000
ain't got nothing to do with that no more

653
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,000
y'all got y'all masters, y'all can go live y'all life

654
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,000
y'all got y'all music, you can go live your life

655
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,000
look, Cassidy, this money

656
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,000
I already know what we

657
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,000
what I did with you, yeah, money hushed you up

658
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,000
so I'm gonna give you all this money

659
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000
and then like you said, everybody saw this golden opportunity

660
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000
to act

661
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000
and that's what the solace is

662
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,000
really just act on

663
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000
the situation of, but she was of age

664
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,000
right, she was of age, this whole situation

665
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000
and like, okay

666
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,000
shouldn't it be a standard on that though

667
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,000
like, do you feel that way?

668
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,000
I mean, cause she wasn't

669
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,000
entitled, I don't care like

670
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,000
bro, that's

671
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,000
like me working with you right

672
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,000
and you saying I gotta do this

673
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,000
and do that, we have that

674
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,000
choice, I'm not gonna be like bro I ain't

675
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,000
doing, I'm gonna say I'm not doing it

676
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,000
I'm not sticking around, I thought

677
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000
it's just a mindset

678
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000
that I thought people would have

679
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000
if you don't feel comfortable doing something

680
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,000
you're not gonna do it, like Lil Rod

681
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000
his whole, like that situation

682
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,000
like why you didn't just leave the room

683
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,000
bro?

684
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,000
you know what I'm saying, like why you didn't

685
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,000
just leave the room, like

686
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,000
if I know right from wrong, like why

687
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,000
don't these other people know

688
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000
and like, and you're participating

689
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,000
in this, she said he had her

690
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,000
looking for the guys with the big

691
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,000
you know, this and that, so you're

692
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,000
participating in this

693
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,000
you knowing what's going on

694
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,000
and you're doing it over and over and over

695
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,000
so you obviously didn't have that much

696
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,000
fear or regret in you

697
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
to keep doing it over and over and over

698
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,000
a lot of them people

699
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,000
Diddy ain't even like, from what I heard, ain't even

700
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,000
a violent person man

701
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,000
Diddy ain't no, if Diddy was a

702
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,000
violent person, if Diddy was a violent

703
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,000
person, we would have been known Diddy was a violent

704
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,000
person by now, I mean

705
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,000
I think it's really just the case of

706
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,000
Diddy had a lot of wants and fantasies

707
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,000
and things of that nature and it's a certain

708
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000
lifestyle that he could live

709
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,000
and some people felt like they could probably

710
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,000
capitalize on it and they didn't

711
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,000
but at the same time, look at

712
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,000
what caused all of this

713
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,000
but now you wanna cry rape, you wanna cry

714
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,000
abuse and this and that

715
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000
you wanna cry

716
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,000
rape, you wanna cry abuse

717
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,000
you know what I'm saying

718
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000
that's where the issue comes in

719
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,000
but again

720
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,000
man, some of these people

721
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,000
don't have the opportunities and

722
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,000
the star struckness

723
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,000
that they're looking for in life

724
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,000
so they just try to make what Diddy got

725
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,000
going on, oh we can just mess up

726
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,000
what he got, it's easy to mess up

727
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,000
Diddy, Diddy ain't

728
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000
he got plenty of money to play with

729
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000
he got plenty of money to throw away but again

730
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,000
and going into support

731
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000
where are all these people that was partying with Diddy

732
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000
why they ain't speaking up

733
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000
why ain't none of these people saying nothing about

734
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000
Diddy, how good of a man

735
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,000
he was and what he did good

736
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000
that's what I'm trying to understand

737
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,000
why can't

738
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000
people talk about Diddy

739
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,000
and that's one thing

740
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000
and I know we've been talking about Black

741
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,000
and we gonna keep it real

742
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,000
we love to see

743
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000
one of ours

744
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,000
we jump on them when they're down

745
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000
we jump on a Black person

746
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000
we jump on them when they're down

747
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000
that's what our race do

748
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000
kick em hard too

749
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000
yeah and look I don't see

750
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,000
nobody going harder on Diddy

751
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,000
than the Black community

752
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000
I don't see no White people really

753
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,000
out here going hard on Diddy like

754
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,000
Black people are

755
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000
we tearing them up

756
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,000
but these were the main ones in Poppin Bottles Ayy

757
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,000
in Miami you know what I'm saying

758
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,000
Miami done left, went back to the

759
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,000
baby daddy

760
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,000
that's what we Black folks do

761
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000
you know what I'm saying

762
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,000
where the support at though

763
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,000
and that's the part where I told you

764
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,000
look at how fast all his support

765
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,000
went out of the door

766
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,000
look at all these people that had deals with him

767
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,000
jumping ship

768
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,000
he ain't dealing with Diddy no more

769
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000
he ain't putting no money in his pocket

770
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,000
he got no money going on man

771
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,000
that's another thing too

772
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,000
they think you got it going on

773
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,000
but what you going through

774
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,000
they don't know the sacrifices you made for it

775
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000
but then that'll stop them

776
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000
from supporting you too by the looks of it

777
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,000
Diddy's a billionaire

778
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000
then you read stuff like

779
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000
he owns a hundred million on the mansion

780
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,000
everybody dealing with something bruh

781
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,000
that shouldn't stop you from

782
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,000
supporting because somebody had

783
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,000
support

784
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,000
support man

785
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,000
this is the thing I was saying too

786
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000
like you just said

787
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,000
this goes back to that

788
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,000
the first part we were basically talking about

789
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,000
you know

790
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,000
support, you have to get out here

791
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,000
and hit every spot

792
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000
until you find a spot

793
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000
that is willing to

794
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,000
accept you, that's the biggest thing

795
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,000
that's basically

796
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,000
my biggest thing

797
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,000
you have to go where you feel that love

798
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,000
you went all the way to Lagos

799
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,000
a lot of people don't get to go to Lagos

800
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,000
a lot of people don't get to go

801
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000
to these

802
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000
I mean just pick a country

803
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,000
Australia, people don't get to go to Hawaii

804
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,000
people don't get to go to

805
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,000
Jamaica

806
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,000
like you went around

807
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000
these are no little

808
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000
small things, these are big things

809
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000
these things don't have

810
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,000
a lot of people don't do this

811
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,000
that's an opportunity

812
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,000
for one

813
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000
you think about it, again

814
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000
you go to Lagos

815
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000
a lot of people don't get to go there

816
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,000
one, two

817
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,000
there's a land of opportunity there

818
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,000
so you ain't just get to go there

819
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000
you got to go there and do multiple things

820
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,000
shot a video, music video

821
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,000
yeah I could do that here in America

822
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,000
but I had the opportunity

823
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,000
to do it in a different country

824
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,000
so it's a different

825
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,000
but the support though here

826
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,000
going back to support

827
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,000
they'll look at that and they'll get jealous of it

828
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,000
instead of embracing it

829
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,000
like our people are just

830
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,000
all he did there

831
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,000
he think he better, too many people

832
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,000
instead of supporting it, too many people

833
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,000
you know what I told you, the whole situation

834
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,000
even when we first met

835
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,000
the whole situation of me and what I had

836
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,000
in Africa with them people, boy it was very big

837
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,000
and it's still probably very big

838
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,000
I got to the point where

839
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,000
the giving

840
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,000
was becoming more substantial

841
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,000
and being such a giving person

842
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,000
was starting to run its course

843
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,000
so again

844
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,000
that's basically what I'm saying to you still though

845
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,000
the love, where the love is

846
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,000
that's where you pour

847
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,000
the most of yourself into

848
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,000
where the love is, if the love is there

849
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,000
you pour yourself into that

850
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,000
don't pour yourself into the cups that's already full

851
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,000
we're in a situation now

852
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in America, we're full, there's too many people here

853
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there's too many people, there's too many people to like

854
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bro, they hit me up, what's out

855
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be jumping just from people that I

856
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met then

857
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and still think about you

858
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and you all the way across the world

859
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and I can't even get a call from a person I went to school with

860
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my whole life and he lived right down the street

861
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from me

862
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and somebody from all the way across the world

863
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is thinking about little old Quincy Murdock

864
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thinking about me, like I said

865
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like I started out by saying it's the small things for me

866
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that mean so much to me

867
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you know what I'm saying, some people

868
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will never get it, some people will never get that support

869
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though

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the smallest support

871
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goes a long way, again like I said

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and then again, like I said, being in the right

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place, that's definitely

874
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going to be a

875
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motivational thing, I'm not like

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the biggest motivational person

877
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to speak to sometimes

878
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because I'm going to give a sense of

879
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tough love in a sense somewhere in it

880
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because in the case of, that's what got me

881
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to my position

882
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of want and

883
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wanting more and taking advantage

884
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of these situations that we do have

885
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where we can get ourselves out there

886
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but you're a great person though

887
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and that's why I'm saying

888
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if we had a whole lot of yous in the world

889
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the world would run differently, the world would be a better place

890
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,000
you're right, you're right

891
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,000
people that actually want to see you succeed

892
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,000
want to see you do better

893
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that's what we need

894
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because it's the opposite, people don't want that

895
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that's why you think I told you

896
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don't worry about the supporters

897
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the supporters will come

898
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I guarantee you, put out

899
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about 4 more movies

900
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supporters will come, put out about 6 more movies

901
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there's going to be some more supporters coming

902
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,000
and I can do it bro

903
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when you ready, when you ready to do it

904
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it's not the case of

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don't look at every situation

906
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as like, need the money

907
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just know that you have it

908
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we have the tools man

909
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and I'm working, I have income

910
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we got to have the right mentality

911
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we done did it one time

912
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we done did it once

913
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like I said, like we said I went to Africa

914
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if I went to Africa one time

915
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,000
why would I doubt myself

916
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like I can't do it again

917
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,000
or go somewhere else

918
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if you did it one time, you can do it again

919
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what's going on, it's your boy Duann

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from Not Just Music Podcast

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make sure you stay tuned for next week's episode

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alright, peace