Historical Womanizing of The Black Culture - Homeisode 46

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Hey, hey, hey, man, what's good? It's your boy

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Quincy Murdock with another episode of Not Just

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Music Podcast. How everybody doing, man? As always,

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you know, back with the topics, back with the

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topics. We normally always try to keep it...

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We try to keep it PG. We always try to keep it...

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in the realms of showing the positive side of

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black. And we build ourself on talking about

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the history of black. Sometimes the history of

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black comes with trials and tribulations and

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things that may be hard to talk about, but they're

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crucial parts to being black, our history. That's

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really why we talk about black history, right?

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So one thing we have to know is with our past,

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it's going to be some unsettling things that

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we talk about. We have to address, you know,

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with the black community, how far we've came

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and things that might not look good, always look

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good. You know, some things that may look bad

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aren't bashes on the black community are bad

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things saying about the black community. It's

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more of. explaining the backstory of black and

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certain situations why certain black people are

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the way they are or why we think the way we think

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uh how far we've come from a situation are our

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past so i wanted to talk about something because

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you know this what i'm about to speak on is very

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heavy and it sails more than anything and that's

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sex black history in the sex realm Sexually.

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And I want to read something because, you know,

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I was doing my research and I thought this was

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deep. You know, it was deep and it kind of puts

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in perspective of sex porn and sex in the black

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community. How is view? Why? Why do we have those

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feelings? Why are we looked at the way we are

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looked at sexually? Sometimes, you know, the

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black community. So I want to read something.

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OK, it says black history surrounding sexuality

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is largely defined by racial stereotypes, sexual

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violence and the struggle for sexual autonomy

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stemming from slavery, errors, exploitation of

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black bodies and of justification of black men

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and women. Now, does that sound familiar? You

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know, if you think about it like. racially stereotyped

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women are more black women are more known to

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be curvy black women are more known to be sexually

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dominant than a white female in the world's eyes

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they feel that way i think society has tended

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on has tended more into thinking looking at black

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women as lust over love and i feel like That's

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why, you know, it's important for our black queens

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to present themselves right out here in the community

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and, you know, broadcast their achievements.

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Because as I just read racial stereotypes, you

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know, most black women I looked at is the hood

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rats, chicken heads, you know, the only good

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for laying on their back, quote unquote. This

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is this is what the world thinks, which is totally

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not true to me. So stereotyping can be big in

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the black community sexually, even with men.

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Society look at black men as if we're just as

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super aggressive by nature. We can't love. We're

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not gentle. We're not gentlemen. We're just animals

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in the bedroom, outside of the bedroom, hardcore.

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And that's far from the truth because there's

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some great gentlemen in the world. It's very

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romantic. That's very. you know uh loving that's

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caring and respectful especially um being from

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down south a lot of men black men from down south

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are the wealth most well -mannered men ever you

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know i'm born and raised in the south and i can

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say i was raised with respect and you hold the

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door you know for the woman or um your elders

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are when you're walking you walk closer to the

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street your female companion walk near the grass

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so she won't get hit we were raised talk little

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things like that sexual violence has always been

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something that was you know big since slavery

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and uh i'll put it to the day is a lot of things

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that happened to us back then that happens to

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us now we normalize it as a black community like

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we'll say We weren't victims when we were victims.

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And I'll use this as an example. You could be

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17, 18, young, female, attractive. And you could

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have a 40 year old that knows your age. And even

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though you agree to it, you sexually agree to

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lay with this man, be with this man. He knows

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it's not right. And he's taking advantage of

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you. But in your mind, you're saying, I said,

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yes, I wanted this because I did it. He didn't

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force me, but he manipulated you in a way to

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get what he wanted from you. So sexual violence

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advantages has always been happening towards

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the black community, especially the black women

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that were slaves back in the day. These white

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masters, slave masters, they called them what?

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You know, take these black women from these black

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men and basically have sex with them, you know,

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and, you know, take advantage of them. And I

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see that now a lot, you know, even in the porn

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industry, you know, it seems like the most celebrated

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type of porn. Is black white man dominating black

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one black woman, you know, and I think that's

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still a stem from. the past, the history. You

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know what I'm saying? And that's something that

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needs to be changed. That's why I'm bringing

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light to this stuff. Enslaved people develop

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their own sexual customs and commitment ceremonies

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despite enslaved women's lack of legal protection

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and sexual abuse they face from enslavers. Post

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-slavery stereotypes like hypersexual Jezebel

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and dehumanization humanized, brute, persistent,

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shaping public disclosure and leading to historical

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avoidance of the topic by scholars. So basically.

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A lot of stuff that. Is not right. A lot of stuff

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we know that that, you know, I'm saying that's

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against God's will. For example, we have made

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slogans and we have made terms and we have made

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it OK. You know what I'm saying? The same exact

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things that the Bible go against. We have kind

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of made our own way of thinking. We've made our

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own way of controlling what we feel is right

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and wrong. And like, for example, a man should

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be with a woman. You know, we all know this,

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like no disrespect to your sexual preference

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or nothing like that. I respect everybody, whatever

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you do. But according to God. It was Adam and

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Eve, man and a woman. People get mad at you when

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you bring the word. You're just speaking. What's

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the word? We're not. I'm not speaking on my personal

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beliefs. You know, my personal beliefs is you

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can do what you want to do. You can be who you

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want to be. Feel comfortable in your skin, but

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also know what God originated and wrote and wanted

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us to be and what he expect of us. You know,

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that's different from opinion. That can't be

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questioned. That's God. You know what I'm saying?

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So then it says sexual exploitation during slavery,

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1619, 1865. And I'm going to list some of these.

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Sexual violence. Enslavers systematically sexually

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abuse and abuse enslaved people using their bodies

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for financial gain, pleasure, and punishment.

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What does that sound like? Porn, as I stated

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earlier. A lot of these porn stars using their

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bodies, selling their bodies for money, uh, prostitution,

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you know, uh, you're selling your body, you know,

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all of these forms are somewhat slave mentality,

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the pleasure, you know what I'm saying? Of, of

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this lust, you know, it's, it's, it's slave mentality

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and the punishments, you know, some women are

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people, women are still getting captured and

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abused. even in relationships are being abused

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and taken advantage of by these men and vice

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versa you know lack of autonomy enslaved women

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lack legal protection against sexual assault

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and were subjected to involuntary reproduction

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to increase the slavers wealth so a lot of situations

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women are still they don't really have protection

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like that when it's Especially when it comes

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to black on black. You notice the world really

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never has a problem when it's black on black.

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If it's a black man abusing a black woman. Or

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if it's a you know, I'm saying it really it really

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isn't a big of a deal as if it was a black man

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abusing a white woman. If a black man was abusing

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a white woman, most likely he will be put under

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the jail. That's if he make it to jail. You know,

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we know the Emmett Till and the history of that,

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you know, him whistling at the white lady and

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they they beat him for days and to eventually

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to he died. You know, that's history, too. You

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can look that up. Emmett Till. It's not really

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a big deal when we do it to our own. But when

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we do it to their race, that's when it's a big

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deal. Forced relationships. Enslaved people,

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both men and women, were sometimes forced into

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sexual unions with white individuals for survival

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to avoid punishment or to secure better treatment

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for themselves or their families. Oh, OK. So

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I'm a get personal. The way that I just read

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that, you know how black women were forced to

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sleep with these white men to get better treatment.

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Basically, like the white man would say, I allow

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you to come in the house and work rather than

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be outside. If you betray your husband, you betray

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your man. You know, I'll give you this. If you

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breaking up society and breaking up families

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within the Black community. And the communities

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all together, but I'm speaking specifically on

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the black communities. I think that played a

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big role in the demise of black families, the

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welfare system. So forced relationships, like

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I said, they're basically forcing you into relationships

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now. You know, they give you all these fortunes

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and fame and free housing, free food, free this,

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free that. And all you have to do is just abandon

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your morals, abandon your respect. abandon what's

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right abandon family you know and they'll give

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you that so I think they switched the roles and

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it's still sexual parts involved but now more

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it's more like financially they try to take advantage

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of you psychologically stereotypes the practice

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of stripping and examining enslaved people on

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auction blocks reinforced the belief that black

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women were naturally lustful and innocuous Okay,

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strippers. You ever think about when you're on

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that pole and you're, you know what I'm saying?

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You're spinning around with your two -piece.

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Sometimes you might be naked. Some clubs allow

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you to be naked. And you have that white man

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in the front throwing money on you. Just throwing

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it. You know, you might have that black man up

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there too. But a lot of these older white men

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have money to just throw like that. You know,

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they bored. They bored, they boring, got this

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money, and they just throwing it on you in the

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clubs. And a lot of black women, heard black

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women personally that was in the stripping business,

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was in the prostitution, and they would say,

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word for word, they would say, I only really

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like dealing with white men because white men

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are going to pay me more. White men are going

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to, you know, I don't really have to, work is

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hard for white men some white men just want me

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to do crazy stuff like five minutes and they

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pay me 10 grand you know and that's how it was

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back then like a lot of these white men view

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our black women as just lust you know like our

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needs what we wanted what what they wanted not

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we what they wanted so you can still see the

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similarities of All that that goes on, you know,

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with within it. Yeah, I just wanted to talk about

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that. It goes on to say the post -slavery era

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and lasting stereotypes. Let me get these in.

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So white freight, the fear of interracial sexuality,

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few racist attitudes and policies during the

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Civil War, Reconstruction and beyond. Hmm. So,

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you know. As we know, you know, sometimes black

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and white can be looked down upon. Sometimes

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the white community doesn't really like black

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mixing in with their community. And you have

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vice versa. Some blacks feel like you should

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only date black. You should only be black. You

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know, like the Black Panthers mentality. You

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have people like that. And the black community

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feel like a black man should be with a black

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woman. A black woman should be with a black man.

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You have that, you know. And that still goes

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on to today. I believe in that. Gisabelle and

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Brooke stereotypes. Historical association of

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black women with hypersexuality, Jezebel, and

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black men with uncontrollable lust and violence,

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Brute, continue to be used to demon and control

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black communities. You know, they still stereotype

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us. Like I said earlier, you know, they think

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of men as being aggressive, brutal animals, you

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know, and they think of women as just being freaks.

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all they all they good for is laying on their

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back all they good for is sex and that's just

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how we've always been viewed and and and somewhat

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to this day some people still view us that way

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which is far from the truth because it's a lot

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of great people doing great black people doing

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great things historical silence the painful story

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of slavery rape and lynching made open discussions

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about black sexuality taboo even for scholars

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Yeah. You know, as we know the history, like,

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you know, we have a lot of bad things happen

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to the black community. A lot of things. And

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as I stated earlier, a lot of these things aren't

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easy to talk about. But us as black people have

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been made to sweep things under the rug if it's

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sensitive, because we don't want to talk about

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that. Leading into the families like. When something

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happened to you back in the day, this is the

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mentality. We've always been told family is everything

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in the black community. Somebody molesters you.

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Somebody does you wrong. You were told, most

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likely back then, don't say nothing. Or even

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if you went and said something that happened

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to you from a family member or a close friend,

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they would say your line. You would get crucified.

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So it made victims scared to come out. It made

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victims scared to express themselves. me doing

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this i feel is important because in the black

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community we want to just oh that's that's touchy

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that's no let's not talk about that let's not

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do that let's not say that but what souls are

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we helping by hiding the truth what souls are

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we uh freeing that's trapped like you know by

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not saying the truth by not revealing the truth

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and that's why this is important because this

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could save somebody that's enslaved mentally

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or still that something bad happened to him maybe

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this would give them the courage to come out

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no matter if it's family or stranger when you're

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done wrong you should come out you should get

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help you should tell somebody your situation

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what happened to you I don't care who it is like

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you know wrong is wrong and you deserve to be

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protected and you don't deserve to be depressed

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you don't deserve to be overwhelmed you don't

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deserve to feel like You were in the wrong. No,

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you weren't. You weren't. You were a great person

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that was taken advantage of, you know. And then

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it says reclaiming and understanding black sexuality,

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breaking the silence. In recent years, some black

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scholars have begun to break the silence. See

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what what did I just basically say and openly

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discuss the complex of black sexuality. You know,

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we're more open. A lot of this generation are

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more open now to sexuality, our past than the

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older folks were back then. Now it's more, you

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see more people being more comfortable in their

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skin. You see more people being honest of who

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they are, what's happened to them, telling their

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story. You know, you see that. And that's a great

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thing because I feel like now people don't have

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to hide who they are. People don't have to lie

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about who they are. They can just. Come out and

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say it because we've made this foundation and

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laid this platform to where it's OK being who

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you truly are. And I think that's very important,

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whether we believe in it or not. Who are we to

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say how someone should live their life or what

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they should do? You know, that's their life.

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We are nowhere to be able to judge because everybody

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might not agree with what we do. But my thing

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is, just stick to who you are. Don't let anything

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influence you or take over what you do. Main

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thing is controlling what you do and how you

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move. You know, that's that's the key. Don't

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worry about how the world moves. And then it

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says cultural impact. Music, film and television

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have. Painted black sexuality in various ways

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through the historical content of exploitation

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and sexual violence remains influential. And

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I started out by saying sex is. You know, if

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you want to sell anything, sell sex. Like, a

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lot of things have went down. You know, movies

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really aren't selling like that. Music had a

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demise at one point, like, where it's up and

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down. Nobody's listening to music. Entertainment,

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television, whatever. You have sports. You have

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these things and businesses and organizations

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that peak, you know, go up and down. But one

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thing that I noticed that I always going to sell

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is sex. Hate it or love it, like sex sales. And

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I really never seen no demise. Like people may

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be broke. They'll spend their last dollar on

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sex, a sexual favor. It's sad, but it's true.

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You know, sex sales. And I think that's why porn,

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OnlyFans, anything sexually. will always have

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money like it they'll never really go broke i

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feel um anything ran sexually a sex business

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uh sexually business whatever it is i feel like

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they will never really see a demise because sex

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sells but what i want us to do is get out of

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that old mentality and i really brought this

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to your attention to show you to awaken you and

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enlighten you like if it's any of those things

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that you may be doing maybe Think about it in

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another perspective. When you up now, up there

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on that strip of ho, like, you know, how they

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viewed us back then until this day, how some

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of you was, um, maybe that'll make you think

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more about it. Not saying change who you are.

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That's up to you. But I'm saying, I just, my

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main thing is to get you to think at least think

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about it. You know what I'm saying? And if you

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think about it, you make your own decision. So

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once again, it's another episode of not just

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music podcast. I know I covered a lot. It's episode.

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But I think this was important. Till again, friends.

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Love. Quincy Murdock.