Growth With Only One Parent ft Quincy Murdock - From The Bottom

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 Yo Q what up? 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Man I'm keeping it real what up the what? 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Welcome 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,000 to not 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:14,000 just music 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,000 where we keep it real 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 and honest 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,000 always 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,000 I 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,000 I 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,000 What's up people what's up people? 12 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,000 Its Quincy Murdock 13 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Quincy Murdock Mr Hold 14 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 on himself 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,000 back with you with another 16 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 um 17 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 It's another episode whatever you wanna classify 18 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 this with 19 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,000 you wanna classify this advice 20 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,000 from Q or you wanna classify this 21 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,000 from the bottom 22 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,000 it can pretty much be 23 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,000 either one you know 24 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 it can pretty much be 25 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,000 either one thank you 26 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,000 thank you for the claps thank you for the claps 27 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,000 claps you know 28 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,000 today I wanna talk about 29 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 mental health I wanna talk about mental health 30 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,000 uh 31 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,000 recently you know um 32 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 people that follow me 33 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 know that I'm an entrepreneur 34 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,000 know that I 35 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,000 still work a nine to five because 36 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,000 I have to have the funds 37 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,000 to provide for 38 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,000 this career 39 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 this dream this vision 40 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,000 of mine um 41 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,000 so a little bit about my back story 42 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 of a single 43 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,000 child I come from a single 44 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,000 parent household where my 45 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,000 mother worked you know to provide 46 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,000 my father was out of the picture 47 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 um so 48 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 I pretty much had the eyes 49 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 stacked against me from the beginning 50 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 uh I didn't have 51 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,000 uh any siblings 52 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,000 so I was 53 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,000 you know 54 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 uh put in a position to 55 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 fight for myself defend myself 56 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,000 uh look out to myself 57 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 you know in many cases 58 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 and this is getting into what I'm talking about 59 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 um so with all 60 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,000 that being said you 61 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 you kinda get put in this 62 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,000 box where life 63 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,000 um going forward 64 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,000 becomes a struggle 65 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,000 you know cause 66 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,000 for one one thing it 67 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,000 affects is finances 68 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 um your mother not being 69 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,000 rich your father not being there 70 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 you already know you're gonna have a 71 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 a long road 72 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,000 ahead of you trying to 73 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,000 uh just create a brand 74 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,000 a name for yourself uh money 75 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,000 and wealth for you and your 76 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,000 kids you know um 77 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,000 unfortunately all of us are not 78 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,000 born to where we have 79 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,000 rich parents you know that 80 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,000 can set us up right and 81 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 we can move into a business 82 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 we have to start from scratch like 83 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 me um 84 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,000 from the bottom so 85 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,000 uh you know and then you 86 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,000 get and fast forward you get 87 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,000 older you get into these jobs and 88 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,000 you know you deal with 89 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,000 the the backlash 90 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 that come with these jobs the people 91 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 the favoritism 92 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,000 the racism 93 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,000 and all you're trying to do is just 94 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,000 take care of yourself and feed your family 95 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,000 but um 96 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 unfortunately the world we live in 97 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,000 is a lot of folks that 98 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,000 just love to see 99 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 others miserable even 100 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,000 when you're trying to better yourself and become 101 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,000 something it's people that just want 102 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,000 to see you miserable you 103 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 know and and etc 104 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 so uh 105 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,000 basically I wanna say um 106 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,000 regardless of what you do 107 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 and this is like job 108 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,000 wise money wise 109 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 anything um 110 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 always put your mental 111 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,000 health first always put yourself 112 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,000 first um money 113 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 is money money will be there 114 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 money will be gone um 115 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,000 jobs are jobs 116 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,000 jobs you can be replaced easily 117 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,000 when especially when you're working 118 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 for somebody jobs uh 119 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,000 you know you can find another job 120 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,000 um you know 121 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,000 always put yourself in your 122 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 your mental first physical 123 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,000 and uh 124 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 uh mentally you know 125 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 you know you wanna be strong 126 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 um 127 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 also invest 128 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,000 in you invest 129 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 into your business invest start a business 130 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 invest into your brand 131 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 like you invest into these other jobs 132 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 um 133 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 take a chance on you we take a chance 134 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,000 on these jobs every morning 135 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,000 waking up uh certain times 136 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,000 but we won't put the time and energy 137 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,000 into creating and working 138 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,000 for ourselves and creating something 139 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 but we'll go punch a clock 140 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,000 uh four nine to five 141 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,000 where most likely some of them don't 142 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 even appreciate what you do 143 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,000 and when you're gone they won't remember 144 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,000 you when you're gone 145 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,000 so it's it's it's way 146 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,000 worth more building your own legacy 147 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 your own legacy than 148 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,000 um following to the footsteps 149 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,000 of working for somebody your whole life 150 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,000 and then when it's gone it's gone 151 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,000 you know you gotta 152 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,000 start looking at it like that people like 153 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 um owning 154 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,000 owning means everything 155 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,000 2024 now 156 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,000 I don't know if people see how the world is 157 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,000 going but ownership and 158 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,000 owning something is important 159 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,000 because if you're just living 160 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,000 check to check now 161 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 own 162 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,000 you're not going to be setting you 163 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,000 or your kids kids or the 164 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,000 foundation that you leave behind 165 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,000 anything so 166 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,000 remember that um 167 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,000 always you know 168 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,000 keep your mental first 169 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,000 yeah yeah you keep yourself first 170 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,000 and 171 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,000 start your own 172 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,000 so that was uh a little 173 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,000 topic that I wanted to touch on 174 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,000 uh people from the bottom 175 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,000 uh stay motivated stay encouraged 176 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,000 uh keep god first 177 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,000 uh you know 178 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,000 keep working put the work in 179 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,000 uh make sure your mental health is 180 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,000 straight your physical health is 181 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,000 straight your eat right you get enough 182 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,000 sleep um and 183 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,000 invest in you and don't 184 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,000 let your backstory 185 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,000 or your past dictate 186 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,000 your future once again 187 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,000 it's Quincy Murdock 188 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,000 um you know back with another one 189 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,000 appreciate y'all 190 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,000 hold on 191 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:54,000 hold on love