Did You Read The Directions? ft Duan & Q - Episode 79
No really. Did you read the directions? A lot of us sometimes will just skip them and miss valuable info. In this episode we discuss a situation that could have gone totally wrong. If it were not for the directions things could have taken and ugly turn. Let's see what this episode is about.
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Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?
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Welcome
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to not
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just music
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where we keep it real
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and honest
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and honest always
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What's going on? It's your boy
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Dwayne Moreno from Not Just Music Podcast
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Quincy Murdock in the building as always
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What's going on?
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What's happening? What's the business? What's the business?
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Another Thursday
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Good people
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That's the business
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And we are well off into the
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month of March
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New money
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New money
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This month shall be a month
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of gloriousness because
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coming off of last month I'm just feeling
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very very very elated especially
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being a black man
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that's able to do things like what I'm
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doing right now
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and talking to you people from a distance
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but I'm in your face at the same time
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So
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That's nice I like that one
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We are
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We are definitely
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We are definitely one of
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many podcasters
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in
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a podcast that
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have a platform
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that is consistent
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that is available
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that is worthy
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of doing things like this
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It's not a lot
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It's a lot of trying
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Put time and energy efforts in
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and it didn't go anywhere
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It's not a
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thing for
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week
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It's a lot of learning to do
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It's a lot of
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studying
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It's not like a thing of just
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coming here and just sitting down
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It's a lot of studying that I do that goes into it
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I actually forgot my loud talk today but
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I'm going to get out it
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It's going to be off the top of my head
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as much as I can but it's
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really a topic that I can really get into
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Now here is
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Here's the new month of March
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Now to
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get from last month
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to this month
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took some time
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took some energy, took some effort
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I had a lot come up
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especially with
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technical, well I'm not going to say just technical
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just the whole situation of just
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making sure that everything is running
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well especially for recording
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and putting recordings
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together and things like that I've been
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consistently just teaching myself things
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in class with a new system that I'm using
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that we're recording on now
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took me some time to get to this but
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it taught me a valuable lesson
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and in that lesson
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is the case of
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time
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factors and what things you do
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to show
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and approve
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of time and not only just
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approving of this time
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what are you learning?
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So I really
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want to talk about
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lessons
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learned
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in most cases
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your lesson is probably going to be learned due to
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a hard time but sometimes it's not due to a hard time
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sometimes it's due to something that was very good
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a lot of the times
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especially like I said with what I was doing
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what my situation was the first time
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I tried to do this recording is
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I didn't have the right equipment
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didn't have the right equipment, didn't have the proper things
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to be able to
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efficiently
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do what I wanted
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to do as far as like I say
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recording, now let me explain
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this is something that a lot of us
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do daily in life
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period
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we have that vision
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we have that idea but we cannot
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put it together
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with, don't know how to get it started
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we don't know how to get it off the ground
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it meets, it has a meeting point
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but it's just like okay well wait a minute
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did I miss something?
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A to B to C to D
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now this is what
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made me think about it
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now when I got this system
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like the first thing I thought about
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man this thing ain't gonna work
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it's gonna, you know, I'm gonna hook the cameras up
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to it and it's gonna do everything
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that I needed to do
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well got it, didn't even take the
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time to even like take the time to learn
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the system, I just kinda just
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I hooked it up but it again
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and trial and error
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something had went bad
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ugly, ugly
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it got ugly so the first one I had
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actually malfunctioned
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I actually had to send it back
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not only did I have to send it back
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one thing I had a situation
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with it too is that
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I had to say I had the wrong components
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I had a hard drive
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a hard disk drive that was
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not compatible
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I mean it was compatible but it wasn't
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fast enough to
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keep up with the
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system to be
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able to record camera feed
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audio all this stuff coming out of this
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one little console
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and kicking it back to save it
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onto a hard drive
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it did not do what it was supposed to
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fast forward to the cameras, the cameras
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I had had the
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I mean had a nice view but
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the situation of I had the
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cameras that do not allow for a
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clean HDMI
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feed so the video feed
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that you would be seeing would have
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the camera components for taking video
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or camera shots and things like that
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so it was basically
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a good big disaster
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a good big disaster
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a great lesson though
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I learned a lot in that one
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those good two days
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actually two days but more so two weeks
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it taught me to really
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look into
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and this is for anything, anybody doing
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anything, look into
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the job, look into
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the instructions
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don't just go buy a
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bookshelf for your room
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and that bookshelf going to be too big or too small
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for your room, look at the details
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read about it
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stop looking at the picture
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and be like man that looks nice
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and I'm going to get it in and I'm going to just like get straight to work
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with it or put it straight up or
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you know I said the R word, uh oh
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that's like medicine, some people don't like
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to take that medicine, reading
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that's the biggest
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part of this, the reason why I said
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you know
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what are you doing to make
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use of what
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you have, meaning are you educating
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yourself or are you just kind of getting
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by with it, you say last episode
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you say we rich at our hands right
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this is the way
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we're teaching you, you gotta be rich in your
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mindset, you gotta be rich in
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the mind, you know what I'm saying
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the mindset is nothing that can stop
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you once you rich in it, they come
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they join, so your mindset
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if your mindset is there
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and then you have the physical
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that comes along with it
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you put these two things together
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it's going to be like the most dominating
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thing you can have, cause your mind
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tells your body what to do, if your mind
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says not to quit
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and be happy and not depressed
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and learn and read then that's what you're
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going to do, the mind controls
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everything, easy, it's
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so easy to
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say that you
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can look at a picture
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it's easy to look at a picture
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and be like yeah that's doable
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but then when you read it
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read the directions that's behind
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it, it changes your whole outlook on
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the thing, it's like a cake right
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the whole outlook on the
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thing, cut that thing open, like I had
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to look, even, and then go back to talk about
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the system, there's so many
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components to this system but it's so simplistic
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out this world, but
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there are so many pieces
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that I needed to be able to
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get it to this point
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it took a lot of
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brain work, it took a lot of test
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trials, like I
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get up and just like work on this like
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for two hours
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three hours, and it
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ain't even the case of like I was doing something that was like
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effective but I was just touching
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it, recording stuff
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building on to it, to find ways
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that I could say I'm going to use this thing
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to the best of my ability
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same thing as I feel like with some of us
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even with it, even it could be
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a relationship. I'm about to get right
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into that man, how you
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like how you
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how you learn the equipment, why don't
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you learn your spouse, you learn your partner
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go ahead, talk about it, you know what I'm saying
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instead of us wanting
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to throw a relationship away
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throw a person away
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why won't we try to study them
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learn them
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and operate it the right way
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you know what I'm saying, learn them
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you know
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learn them, fix it
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work with it, adjust it
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tune it, it might just need a little tune up
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but once you get that thing working
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boom
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you know what I'm saying, so yeah
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I put this with people
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I put this with people
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yeah, that's what we need, and patience
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be patient
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I like this, I want to say this
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patience
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we've talked about the whole
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situation of you know
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educating, making ourselves
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a whole
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light on another level
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and it's not like
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as a relationship
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let me go say this now, now let me talk about the system
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the system I was saying you know
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you got this system right, and then you
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reading about the system and it's like
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okay wait a minute
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this ain't what I was, you know
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this ain't what I thought it was going to be, so like
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you just said, so you got this
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beautiful individual in front of you
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it just, it looks wonderful
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it looks great, you know
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on paper, you know, on picture, it looks wonderful
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then
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a year later
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that beautiful, wonderful
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person just don't look as beautiful anymore
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because you read it
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now you done read it, it hit you a different
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way, don't look the same no more
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so what you gonna do? Talk to them
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so now
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you get to this point
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where you're in, and you're like
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okay you know what
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I didn't think about any
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of this because it just looked so
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good in the beginning, what do I do now?
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you didn't study them, you didn't learn them
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so with the system as I said
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I read it, and the more I read it
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and the more I put time in with
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what I read, the better and
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better it became, so the same way
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in a relationship, it's not perfect
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a relationship is not supposed
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to be perfect, and I'm gonna be honest
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too, anything, if it's a job
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whether if you're playing basketball
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whether if you're a football player, whether if you're
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a baseball player
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whatever profession you're doing, whether if you're a light
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guy, whether if you're a microphone guy
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whether if, I mean, what are you working
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a 9 to 5, working on them
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on them a seat, pick your job, pick your
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forklift, driver, or
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whatever it is, a lawn mower
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you're gonna have to learn it, and you're gonna have to learn how to operate it
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biggest thing you can do
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is take the time
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read it, or whatever
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it is, put
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your hands on it, hands on
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put your hands on it, same thing
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put your hands on these things
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and
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it's not saying you gotta love it
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learn it
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learn it, learn
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it, I mean
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what more can you do
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to set yourself up to be in a better position
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and learn something
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see, the scariest thing that I feel
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what I feel
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terrified by is when I get to a point
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where I'm not learning something anymore
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that takes me
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that, relationships
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that's gonna take you a long way
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in a relationship
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your personal
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your personal life, just check this out
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you learn a lot about yourself
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I'll give you a good example, you're learning something from yourself
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right?
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some people get to a point where
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they don't know how bad off on something
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they are until it hits them
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meaning
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let me make an example
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so
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just say you're
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one of those type people
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that are not so savvy with money
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right?
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say you get a check, right?
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when you get paid
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you spend
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your whole entire check and not think about
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budgeting one dollar out of it, right?
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eventually
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your mentality is
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going to tell you, you know what
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I might need to save some money
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why?
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because of the situation
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what are you doing with the check?
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as soon as I get a check, I'm gonna go
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to the look store
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I'm gonna go to the grocery store
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I'm gonna go
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to the outfit for this weekend
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some shoes for this weekend
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you ain't thought about your bills
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you ain't thought about your
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I hate to say this, that's why I think
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prison works in a lot of cases
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because in prison you ain't got nothing to do
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but guess what?
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learn yourself
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you ain't got nothing to do but learn yourself
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like you just said, learn yourself
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you gonna learn yourself
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you gonna learn your flaws
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you gonna learn what you like, what you don't like
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because it's nothing to do, that's all you got time to do
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so I'm not pushing
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prison but I'm pushing
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prison type
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type lifestyles that I think
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will help, you know what I'm saying? something that'll make people
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have to sit and learn
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like lock them in a room
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you learn yourself
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because that's another thing too, cause
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a lot of us don't know ourselves
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how can we try to fix something
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and help somebody else if we don't
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can't fix and help ourselves
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that's what I'm saying, so
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that's another thing man, learn yourself
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learn your flaws, learn your good points
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your bad points, what you can work on
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you know what I'm saying
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then you'll be able to handle everybody else's flaws
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and that's the
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success part right there
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so just like with that
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to add on to that, just like I said
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I took this system
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and
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I dealt with it
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I figured it out, I understood it
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and honestly it makes you
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it's gratifying
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to be able to get to a point
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where you're in tune
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with something
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in tune, you know
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whatever, if it's the job
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if you're on the forklift, you know
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you work on the forklift, you become
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you get on it every single day, you ride around
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on it every single day, you pickin' up stuff with it
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every single day, eventually it's gonna become such an easy
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thing for you to do
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same thing with your life
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same thing with your relationships
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same thing, like
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if the mentality
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you have is to
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conquer something and to be
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do it at the best
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and the highest level, you'll get there
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can I say something else?
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consistency
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another one, you gotta
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be consistent, we started out by saying
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you stay consistent at what
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you do, you know what I'm saying
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your studying ways, your habits
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your good habits, stay consistent with it
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that
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that takes
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that part
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what you say, never
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wanting to not learn
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wanting to learn more and more every day
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that's part of being consistent, you know what I'm saying
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wanting to learn something new
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not being comfortable with what you know, but wanting to get
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even better
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or achieve even greater heights, you know what I'm saying
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and that's what
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that keeps the mind fresh, you know what I'm saying
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that keeps the body going
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like that, you're just hungry
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for more
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that consistency
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takes a lot of
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discipline
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I think that's like
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one thing that I've really
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propelled myself
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into, especially the past
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two years, is just to be
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consistent
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it's not easy either, but we not seeing it
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it's not a thing
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you have to get to a point where you're just
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doing it, if you can get to a point where
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you're just doing it, even if you mess
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up, even if it takes time
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even if you got a start over on
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something, don't beat yourself up
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just be consistent
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once the consistency comes, you ain't gonna
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even think about the mess ups
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if you mess up, if you drop it
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like a football player, if he fumbles
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the ball, guess what
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that's just that one time
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most of my blessings came
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from misfortunes
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most of my blessings came
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from things not
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turning out the right way
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me learning from that, and then it turning
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into gold
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every no
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sometimes a no
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is a yes that you gonna need in the future
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that no is gonna be a yes
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that you might need in the future
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so
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the underdog story
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you take them trials and tribulations
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make them, make it gold
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your winning season
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learn from it
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I had
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a
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close friend that
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that's one thing I learned from
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him
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especially about being consistent
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if you're not
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and this is the case
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tying yourself in with folk
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that's consistent too
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really helps, because if you see somebody
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be consistent
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you're eventually going to pick up
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on those
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those same habits
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a good habit is consistency
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that is not a bad thing
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a good habit is consistency
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if you can get yourself to a point
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every single day
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wake up, do the same
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exact thing
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do the same exact thing
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clearly to the point where
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you're like, okay you know what
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I can just wake up
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and it just goes
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it just happens
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nobody's perfect though
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but again, you get up
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you got your routine, you go get your coffee
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take a shower, whatever it is
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take a shower, get out, get your coffee
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go get ready for work, get your coffee
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go out the door, you consistently do that
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day in, day out
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day in, day out, whatever how many hours
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you work in a week, you get to the point where you're like
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you know what, I've worked this, I'm working 60 hours
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I'm working 50 hours, the more consistently
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you do that, the more you're
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you're locking in
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you're just locking yourself into something
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there's nothing wrong with that
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you have to work
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you have to work
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there's nothing wrong with doing the consistency
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thing of going to work every single day
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because it teaches you discipline
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no matter what, because if the case of you going to work
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every single day, that means that with everything else you do
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you were trying to do or you're going to put effort into that
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it's going to be consistent
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it's not going to be a thing of
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oh, I'm going to just happen every here and there
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no, you do it every single day
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it's going to happen
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eventually your mindset is going to be
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oh, I didn't do this today
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00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,000
and that's a good thing
578
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,000
because that means you're consistent
579
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,000
your brain has been trained to do things
580
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000
not only as in
581
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a short term, but all the time
582
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000
day in, day out
583
00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000
so again, like I was saying though, back to the system
584
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,000
you know, I said
585
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,000
to feel that completion
586
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,000
there's a variety
587
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000
you can go many ways with this topic
588
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,000
yeah
589
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,000
your mindset
590
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,000
if your mind
591
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000
and I just think about if my mindset was messed up
592
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,000
from the jump
593
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,000
that first time that it went bad
594
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000
and I remember myself
595
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,000
saying to myself, you know, like
596
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oh well, it happened
597
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,000
and
598
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,000
not the wine, I know
599
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,000
the mindset has always been figured out
600
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so even at the same time
601
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I lost the computer as well
602
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,000
around that time frame
603
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so a lot of stuff was hitting me out of nowhere
604
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,000
so I was really at that point where I was like
605
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000
okay, here's that standstill
606
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000
here I'm sitting still trying to figure out how to keep going
607
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,000
how to keep this moving
608
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without stopping
609
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000
but again, sometimes you do have
610
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,000
that moment where you really have to slow down
611
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,000
and stop just to get it all back together
612
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,000
which is a good thing too because when the computer
613
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,000
was going it kind of gave me that balance
614
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to say okay, you know what
615
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,000
I'm gonna clear my head
616
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,000
but you know what though, you never showed it, that's another thing
617
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000
you never showed it
618
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,000
you would have never known
619
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000
and that's like the energy
620
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,000
as a leader too
621
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000
you showed good leader skills
622
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,000
because you could have showed it to me
623
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,000
like bro, we fried
624
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,000
we done
625
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,000
but you didn't even tell me
626
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,000
you was going through this
627
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000
none of that, I just
628
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,000
found it out this
629
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,000
you know what I'm saying
630
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000
it always
631
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,000
that always is a thing
632
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,000
that's why I said, being consistent
633
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,000
if it's consistency
634
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000
you know
635
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,000
thank god for my parents
636
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,000
because they always saw a vision
637
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,000
having a vision
638
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,000
is not like the case of saying
639
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,000
my vision is my vision but I always had a vision
640
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,000
so if it's the case
641
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,000
to have people
642
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000
that's always there to consistently push you
643
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,000
you know
644
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,000
having a spouse that's consistently pushing you
645
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,000
that's important too
646
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,000
you know, extra, extra
647
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,000
shout out wifey, consistently pushing
648
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,000
shout out
649
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,000
the fam
650
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,000
those that look out for me
651
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000
not even saying in the case of saying it's just financial
652
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000
this is talking about just like talks
653
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000
words that y'all say
654
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,000
whether you just sent me something like
655
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000
yo keep going, keep going
656
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,000
don't give up, don't slow up
657
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000
that's big, that's bigger than money
658
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,000
that part is
659
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,000
that shows you care
660
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,000
positive energy
661
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,000
is one of the biggest paybacks
662
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,000
that you can give a person
663
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,000
positive energy
664
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,000
I ain't talking about oh I'm mad
665
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,000
I'm in my
666
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,000
feelings cause I'm just
667
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,000
in my feelings
668
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,000
you show somebody that they ain't gonna give you
669
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000
they don't wanna give you nothing
670
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000
think about somebody you admire just telling you
671
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000
keep going, I see
672
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,000
how much that could change somebody
673
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000
than just giving them money, that means a lot
674
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,000
I mean somebody told me that I admire
675
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,000
and gave me that advice
676
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,000
that will push me
677
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,000
like oh man I'm doing something good
678
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,000
I got their attention, like they're looking
679
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,000
like wow
680
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000
it makes you feel elated
681
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,000
it makes you feel it
682
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,000
I don't take
683
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,000
I've always taken the bad
684
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,000
times and really just rolled them up
685
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,000
and said you know what
686
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,000
if I have
687
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,000
to prove something to somebody
688
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,000
I'm gonna prove that I can be a very positive
689
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
person, just because the fact
690
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,000
of, cause you can
691
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,000
somebody's negatives can really sweep
692
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,000
you in quickly if you allow it
693
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,000
and I had an incident
694
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,000
I mean you right and I
695
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,000
forgive myself and I hope
696
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,000
God forgives me
697
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,000
we get in that moment
698
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,000
since we talked to other people
699
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,000
and pointed out their stuff
700
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000
I was in the room this week, I let something
701
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,000
get to me and that was it
702
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,000
I asked for forgiveness and he's
703
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,000
right, you can let something
704
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,000
cause it always comes at you
705
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,000
when you're changing, when you're trying to do better
706
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,000
when you're trying to mature
707
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000
like you said
708
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,000
everything just start falling out
709
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,000
like I'm on the rise
710
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000
and things looking good, them trials are gonna come
711
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,000
the devil come in
712
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,000
sweep you, sweep
713
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,000
black tail right off your feet
714
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,000
you just came from being there
715
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,000
and you're going somewhere up
716
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,000
and now the devil trying to bring you back down
717
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,000
it's easy
718
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,000
but being consistent
719
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,000
you always gonna find yourself back on track
720
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000
if you're not
721
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000
consistent when these storms come
722
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,000
it might take you back
723
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000
you might fall this time, you might fail
724
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000
you might not make it out this time
725
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000
but when you're consistent
726
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000
your mind's gonna tell you, oh I did that
727
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,000
but nah that ain't what I'm on
728
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000
I'ma go on your level right quick
729
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,000
but then tomorrow I'll be up here
730
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000
I said what I had to say, I'ma leave it alone
731
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,000
that's a
732
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000
that's a rule that some people should put
733
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,000
for themselves
734
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,000
taking that
735
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000
taking a higher road
736
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,000
than your situation is
737
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000
your situation is gonna be so short
738
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000
only if you want it to be short
739
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000
if you want your situation to be long
740
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000
it's gonna be long
741
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000
but sometimes you have to prove
742
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,000
just let a person know
743
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,000
and just let it be
744
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000
but if you let it bother you after that
745
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,000
then it's a problem
746
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,000
sometimes you just
747
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000
you can be quiet, you can be humble
748
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,000
but it comes to that point in life
749
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,000
and you know, Dwayne I told you this
750
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,000
you too nice sometimes
751
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,000
you just gonna have to let a person know
752
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,000
and I know
753
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000
and I know it's just in you
754
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,000
and it's not gonna make somebody
755
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,000
view you differently like I'm not gonna look at
756
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,000
Dwayne as like a bad person
757
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,000
because I look at how much you
758
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,000
deal with too, with people
759
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,000
in a disrespect
760
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,000
so you can't get mad at him
761
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000
for just like okay enough is enough
762
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,000
I just gotta let these people know
763
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,000
who Dwayne Barrino is
764
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,000
and then after that I'm done with it
765
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,000
don't talk about it, don't
766
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,000
I'm not talking about it, you know what I'm saying
767
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000
I respect that
768
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000
the sad part is
769
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,000
too though
770
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000
like I said
771
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000
some people
772
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,000
just looking to get that bad energy
773
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,000
out of you
774
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,000
and my thing is
775
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,000
if somebody can get bad energy out of you
776
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,000
that means they got some kind of handle on you
777
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,000
and I hate that
778
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000
I hate it
779
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,000
my thing is
780
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,000
positivity can also
781
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,000
irritate somebody that's really negative
782
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,000
positivity
783
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,000
can irritate
784
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000
somebody that's very negative
785
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000
like my parents used to say you gotta love the hell out of them
786
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,000
you gotta love the actual real hell out of them
787
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,000
what is it gonna do
788
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,000
what is it gonna change for me to get mad
789
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,000
so we both sitting here yelling at each other
790
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,000
we ain't gonna get no points across either way
791
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,000
and that's why I said
792
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,000
somebody willing to go
793
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000
back and forth with you
794
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000
it's a beautiful thing, don't get me wrong
795
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,000
it's a beautiful thing but it's also an ugly thing
796
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,000
because going back and forth
797
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,000
in the right mentality
798
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,000
is good but going back and forth in the wrong mentality
799
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000
you ain't gonna get no left
800
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000
and that's why I always try to be the one that
801
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000
and I feel what you're saying
802
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,000
is I'm a peaceful person
803
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,000
but I've come from
804
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,000
a situation of being a rowdy
805
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000
guy
806
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000
and getting upset over the littlest things
807
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000
like I used to let the smallest
808
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,000
things get on me
809
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,000
like patience was
810
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,000
wow!
811
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000
it took me going to a jail cell, getting locked up
812
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,000
this building where we're at right now
813
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,000
before all of this was right here
814
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,000
and this just used to be an empty shell
815
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,000
this spot right here
816
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,000
taught me so much
817
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,000
about being a musician
818
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,000
about being a recording engineer
819
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,000
about being a mixing engineer
820
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,000
and I'm saying this
821
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,000
because the case of
822
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,000
I got mad
823
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,000
I got upset, I got angry
824
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,000
in this same place
825
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,000
in the same building
826
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,000
in the same area
827
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,000
but I worked so hard at what I wanted
828
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,000
and to do better at it
829
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,000
and to get better at it
830
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,000
to see the potential
831
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,000
and to have
832
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,000
like I said, parents that are willing
833
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,000
to take chances
834
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,000
that's a big part of it
835
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,000
this is one thing I want y'all to do too
836
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,000
you know, parents
837
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,000
take those little chances on your
838
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,000
children
839
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,000
that little small
840
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,000
even the small stuff, I said this before
841
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,000
take the chances
842
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,000
on your kids, take the chances on your
843
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,000
family members too, don't forget about your
844
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,000
family members too, because some family members need that help
845
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,000
too, and you see that they have
846
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,000
the potential and ability, friends
847
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,000
too, let me say this
848
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,000
and that goes along with the conversation
849
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,000
about relationships earlier, friends too
850
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,000
check your friends, study your kids
851
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,000
study, learn these
852
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,000
read into what they do
853
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,000
we got into it, study them
854
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,000
learn it, you know what I'm saying
855
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,000
and you know
856
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,000
invest in them, you know
857
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,000
watch them blossom and grow, you know what I'm saying
858
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,000
they only going to be what you
859
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,000
invest in them and put in them
860
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,000
I mean some are, the eyes are making
861
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,000
it without that support
862
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,000
and the investments
863
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,000
are slightly less likely
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than having that support
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and having that push
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you know what I'm saying, so it's good to learn
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some kids require more
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push, more attention
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more people, you know what I'm saying
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yeah, that's why
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studying, educating
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reading, researching
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the equipment you have
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the people you have in your life
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is important, get to know people
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and things
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now your focus
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should be different now
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it should, it should
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podcast
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we just broke it down so nice
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I gave you an aspect
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to look at, I gave you the ingredients
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I gave you the ratios
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of what things go on
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with
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how
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realistic life
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can sometimes line up with
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other things in your life that you're going through
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or you know
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like I said I just used the situation to totally
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something that I needed to learn
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a piece of equipment and put that with life
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that gave me the mentality
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to have this idea of saying
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okay, you know what
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I have to think a little differently
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the older I get, that's one thing I've been trying to do
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think differently
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use a whole different mindset
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than what I used to because one
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you can't operate how you did when you
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was young, you never want to go back
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to doing the stuff that you used to do like you said
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you aint not making it out in situations
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it's not a thing that you're perfect
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it's not a thing that you're perfect
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but it's a thing that you're working on yourself
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working on yourself is what you want to do
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and I use
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Kobe as an example
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Kobe was athletic when he was young
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he studied
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he studied the game
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and he got more of an isolation play
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where he would get creative with his game
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because he knew the athleticism was gone
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so that's with age
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you have to study and learn
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different ways I can use
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you don't have to use that much energy
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make it easy on you
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that's why I say
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research and man
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and my last thing to say is
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and I think I'm basically done
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don't take
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your shortcomings
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again, I said this
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don't take these shortcomings
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and let them run over you
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don't let them
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we're going to
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run into a situation eventually
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in time where we're going to go through
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some stuff
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but don't let that beat you up
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I'm building myself
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to be a better person
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I'm sure Q doing the same thing
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nobody is
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and we all have that room to grow
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remember, pray
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pray these things away
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if you don't know what to do, just pray
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whatever you want to pray to is up to you
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but again, just remember, pray
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get a better mentality
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positive, bring in that positive energy
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and go back after that thing that you want
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that you want to do
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it's all up to you
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again, we're not just music podcasts
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if you're already on the website, bless you
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stay tapped in
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follow
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hit that follow button
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follow everything, whatever you feel you want to follow
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follow us there
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every time we drop
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it'll tell you, look, they just dropped
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hello, they just dropped
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give us your notification, also subscribe on the website
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that's the best one for me
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because in case of, I can get it
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directly to you a whole lot faster
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and you'll be first to know
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every single thing that goes on
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again, as time goes on this year
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there's going to be a lot of stuff going on
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just pay attention
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if you're not tied into
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an email
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you won't know
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shout out to them views
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the numbers
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I'm seeing gradually people
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paying more attention to what we're saying
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and y'all don't know, the more y'all pay attention
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the more motivation it gives us
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it motivates us
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to put our best foot forward
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to give y'all
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the information
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the quality
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all this
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y'all motivate us too, we don't want to just make it
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a one thing thing
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y'all motivate us and we hope we can motivate y'all
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out there in the world
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so yeah
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lastly too, remember
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get your
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get your
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get your chance to go on the website
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and look at everything
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just go on the website and look at everything
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there's a lot there too that you want to pick
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and
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I think that's it
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that's it
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again
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this was the Music Podcast, the one I bring up, Clifton Murdoch, out
