Belief In True Love - Homeisode 35

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Yo, yo, yo, it's your boy Quincy Murdaugh with

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another episode of Not Just Music Podcast where

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we keep it real and honest. Shout out to my people

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that's been subscribed to us. Shout out to my

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people that's been following from the beginning.

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Even if you're new followers, appreciate all

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of y 'all that's on the team now. The topic that

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I want to talk about today is ironic because

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I actually have a song titled by the name that

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what I'm going to be speaking on. And what I

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want to speak on today is a topic titled, What

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is True Love? I'm part of a single safe and save

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ministry organization. Me and some two other

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girls came up with in my church, Refuge Church

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of God. search a refuge with the great pastor

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sadie campbell reaches there basically we had

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a single safe and saved green flag basically

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you ask questions and if you agree with it throw

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the green flag you don't agree throw the red

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flag if it's kind of in the middle mutual you

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throw a clear flag or white flag and we held

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this event yesterday and the question came up

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what is true love Does true love exist? And my

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thing about true love, personally, I feel like

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true love does exist. I feel like true love is

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you love a person through the ups and the downs.

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Or if a person does something to hurt you and

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you take it away, you feel a way about what they

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did. You take it to heart. It really affected

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you and you really took it hard. I feel like

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that's true love. That's the definition of true

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love because you actually care enough that this

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person did this to you and hurt you. Whatever

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it was they did, you felt the way. So I feel

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like if it makes you feel a way, even the bad,

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what's true love? You got true love for that

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person. I do believe people can get in relationships

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and it not be true love. Sometimes it not be

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love at all. I feel like a lot of people get

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in relationships trying to look for benefits.

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What can benefit them? Sometimes it's sexually,

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sometimes it's financially, sometimes it's opportunities.

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What role can this person put me in? Those are

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all definitions or signs of not love, I feel.

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But I think true love is like you get into it

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and you actually love a person for them. I'm

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saying through the flaws and the good, the bad,

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the ugly, you truly love them. And even when

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you break up in separate ways, I feel like true

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love is still going to exist with that person

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because you really love that person. You don't

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just fall out of love for somebody you really

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got true love for. I never have. And I personally,

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I knew the difference. I felt the difference

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with each individuals. I had a thing with our

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relationships with et cetera. I knew the difference.

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I felt the difference. So you always know the

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difference when you personally will feel it and

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you will know because it's a feeling. So that's

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what I feel about true love. I think it exists.

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What do y 'all think? Do you think true love

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exists? What is your true definition of true

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love? Does true love hurt to you? Is true love

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always good? Everything is good? Do you pose

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a stick with them? Is it boundaries on true love?

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Another thing I want to say is the love we have

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For another individual based off how we feel

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about the individual. If you're dedicated to

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something or somebody, if your heart, you want

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this so bad and you want this, you're going to

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do everything you can to get it right. You're

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going to do everything to keep it once you get

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it. So I feel like true love is something that

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we seek for. We want not what the other person

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does not. Like how they feel about us. They might

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not even love us. Personally. But we love them.

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Because we can control. Sometimes. We can control

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how we feel. In a sense. We can control how we

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feel. We can't control what another person feels.

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Or how they feel about us. But we can control

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how we feel. And how we feel about something

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or somebody. True love is really how you feel.

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True love is really how you feel. And nobody

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really can define your true love. Are you saying

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I tell you what true love is to you? So that

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was just another little topic that I wanted to

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talk about. The true love. This is true. Welcome.

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Thank you all for tuning in to another episode

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of Not Just Music Podcast. I know it was short

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and sweet, but I just wanted to get that out

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there, man. And just a little Black history.

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I want to throw a little Black history in there.

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You know what I'm saying? I want to throw a little

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bit of Black history. Bear with me. I'll finish

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it off like this. My grandpa been married for

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Got to be over 20 years for sure. From thick

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and thin. My grandpa had his flaws. My grandma

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dealt with it. Thick and thin. She remained a

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white. She remained there. To this day, they're

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still married. And my grandpa did some very bad

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things to my grandmother. All respect to my grandpa.

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But he did some very disrespectful things to

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my grandmother. And one thing that she always.

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maintained was that was her husband she remained

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kept that love for him and from what i've seen

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to love because she always still catered for

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him even when he would treat her the worst he

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would cook she would clean run his bath water

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sometimes wash his back wash him when he couldn't

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you know i'm saying now and take care of him

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Wipe is behind sometimes. Does that. And who

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would have thought that even though he treated

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her and doing things to her this way, she still

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loves that man. So I think back in the days,

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they tend to put up with more. They tend to stick

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it out more. Nowadays, I feel like people are

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easy. Might not even be on the severity of the

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level of what was happening and occurring back

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then. But I feel like just the slightest misunderstanding

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or the slightest bad thing, people are ready

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to call it quits. And the reason why I think

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people are ready to call it quits so easily nowadays

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is because it's not true love.